Both parties must strive & struggle to fight to keep their relationship on..in another words to keep their relationship as stronger as ever..This is called..’COMMITMENT’..??

Never stop fighting even if you are the only one. If it’s worth it you won’t stop.

I do still love him but think it’s time I realised am fighting a loosing battle ??

If you ARE the only one fighting, then it’s pretty pointless.

I’m done fighting. I won’t convince you that I’m good enough.

Even though the relationship is good and we’ve been together for 28 years I won’t fight for NO MEN… Life GOES ON…

Been there done that…that’s a hopeless battle..did it once. I’m sure I’d do it again…

CorrectO! The struggle is real but if both are working hard with one another through storms and hail. The sun shall shine on them as well.

All love in unrequited. If what Alan Watts says is true and we are all the supreme being, each and everyone of us, then loving someone else is the same as loving yourself. Given then that you cannot return the love you give yourself, not in the same sense as the two person system, the love you give yourself cannot be returned in the normally thought of sense. So you need to love yourself first, then you can love another version of yourself. Furthering this, even if you cannot love another, since they are another version of yourself, you should… Read more »

EXACTLY! When you finally realize you were the only one fighting for your relationship, walk away. I fought for mine for 16yrs. I’ve been single for almost a year and still working on finding myself. I believe that in order to have a healthy relationship both parties have to give it 100% and work on it on a daily basis…little things matter. Being in Love shouldn’t be so hard <3

Relationships distort our judgement and ability to be objective because strong emotions like love can overpower our ability to reason. If we are not sure what we are fighting for we could be wasting time but if we fight alone that is even worse.

Amen, relationships are about 2 people that are looking out for each others best interest. They have an equal amount of admiration and respect towards the other. If you can find that, dam straight its worth fighting for.

I made a mess. Now he gave up on me but i dont want to give up on him 🙁 its hard but id rather have a hard time trying to win him back than losing him 🙁

We are worth fighting through it brad. i know the situation is hard now love and i will give you time to figure it out but please open up to me soon so you dont take all the stress and burden on urself.

I fought for it for four years even up to the last day. But you can’t make someone love or care for you. When all they care is what they can take from uou

If you feel that you are alone in your fight, trust your instincts, you are the only one. They will make all kinds of excuses not to commit while continuing to chase the demons of their past. Walk away! You will never be strong enough to help them forget the past. You will always live in the shadow of their ex and compared to their ex. The good news is that God has the perfect person for you. he’s just waiting for you to let go of a relationship he never blessed from the beginning. Believe me when he sends… Read more »

Absolutely. If they don’t want it as much as you do, then you need to analyze what exactly it is you want so much. Why be a doormat for someone who isn’t going to change? Now, if only i could follow my own advice

I’m not looking fr a perfect one. but I’m looking for someone who understands me not only my words but rather most of my silence.. :] #single
Fall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is hard <3