So when a guy is a perfect gentleman, kind, sweett, caring, loving and thoughtful, he gets FRIENDZONED.. then girls choose otherwise, then girls complain about not having the perfect boyfriend.. the IRONY.

Yes that is true when for the 13 years that is all I have dealt with I know all men aren’t the same but sometimes unknownlly we attract the same type

All men are not the same just like wise all women are not the same but good men/women don’t come easy so sometimes you will some guy/girls who are bad before u meet the good ones in life

Even a guy really wants to feel the same, vice-versa.. To prove to him that all the girls are not the same..

As a gentleman who can only speak for myself i am not like all other guys,ask any lady that knowes me, and they say i am man of integrity and a gentleman.

Even tho they all are! It’s like waiting to see a mermaid or unicorn, some things come close but in the end ours just a fish and a horse.

Yea … If all men are loyal then kindly show their girls that they can be ditchers :p just to prove a “different self”
What idiotic post..

Not all but some girls thinks ds types of idiotic idea..love is not a reality shw to prv some one that ur prfrmnc is d best …..i thnk seasonal minded people r thnks ds types of ****** idea.

Not all girls :/ some just want to play the good guys. Then they posting up on there social media saying where are all the good guys… they are in the friendzone or maybe its cuz you played them all

I am old school the man is to look for a mate not the woman looking for a man. “He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favor of the LORD “proverbs

All a guy wants is for a girl to show him he’s all she needs. Not the Internet, not a crowd of boy toys. Just him and him alone.

That’s a what they SAY they want but when you do everything possible to prove it and they still shut you out and go running after yet another jackass seems to me like a GOOD guy has not shot

So a guy does that & she’s happy for a while, then she still looks outside for another guy she thinks is spontaneous coz she craves for something new… Let’s just face it, women are curious & never satisfied. Find one without the 1st & has the later then you’re lucky coz she’s the #One

…… besides if he/she genuinely loves you, respects you like they ckaim to. they will have eyes for no one else, good bye to flings, good bye to flirts and good bye to one night stands. Or flavor for the hour. You wait for the one you love, that’s if you think they are worth waiting for.

That’s one of the many things. She may want, if he can prove he’s not like the rest, everything else will fall into place. Don’t profess love and respect in one’s presence. And in their absence, life goes on, double life, double standard…. it can’t be true love if you can’t be faithful, loyal and honest to the one you claim to love.

its not only about people who we have been with that we question every man we date. Its also seeing your friends bf flirting with that chick at the bar, or your father cheating on your mum, or seeing a guy you know has a gf on a dating site. and this is why us women question every guys intentions with us. We’ve seen it all or been through it all. It goes for the same with women too. Men do question women too.

So very true but y should he prove she should be able to see also even though she has been used and hurt so bad
And sometimes its the opposite a guy has been hurt bad and a girl should put in effort to show him not all girls are the same

That’s a quote from Marilyn Monroe I believe… I think despite her beauty and popularity she was a very lonely woman deep down inside and seemingly unable to find anyone that could treat her like a normal woman would want except her psychiatrist who apparently treated her like part of his own family and often had her over for diner with his wife and their kids and she would help out his wife in the kitchen and do dishes afterward… I think she was forever searching and just ran out of time…

No. Its a woman’s duty to set the standard of how she is treated and respected. If she waits for a man to do that for her, all men will always be the same…no man she is with will ever respect her because she will always attract the same type of man. Set the bar ladies. Do not place that power outside of yourself into the hands of another.. When you do, the right man…a good man, will be drawn to you. Until then you will only attract unhealthy men. There are a lot of narcissist psychopath/sociopaths out there who… Read more »

They are blind unfortunately .. They don’t even realise what you do for them .. They don’t see the struggle that you have been through to keep them happy … So why will you care when nobody cares at all

Three guys were all the same, in my experience. But I haven’t lost hope yet. Maybe the fourth will be a song. Who knows? This is me being naive but positive..

NOT TRUE! The problem is impossible expectations, unrealistic expectations, watching movies like The Notebook and saying I want THAT. And no, not all guys are the same. And for those of us who aren’t we get the bad rap of every scumbag that fucked you over. So where does that leave us? It leaves us fighting ridiculous uphill battles for being ourselves AND gets us fucked over constantly because we can’t possibly just be ourselves and different.

I think what a WOMAN wants is a man to recognize a person like her is unique. When you recognize quality you work hard to keep it close.

At 1sr maybe, but because she’s been screwed over so many times before, she won’t know what to do with a nice guy who genuinely cares for her…so she’ll push him away