This makes me laugh.. Not a single person will give what they receive. It doesn’t work that way..everyone has a different past and is always struggling with something no one will understand ?

What a lot of bollox! Did all this and all I got was a broken heart . You get taken for a fool if you give everything .
Thus experience doesn’t stop me to carry in this way but it made me aware

Total bull!!! He has rejected me over and over and even after everything he has done im still by his side supporting him and telling him i love him and DOING things to show him love and forgiveness and compassion and I GET NONE OF IT BACK!!!! I get him sleeping with other woman, talking to me about other woman, telling me to leave him because he isn’t good for me and on and on….. 🙁

This is simply not true, I feel it’s a great thing to do all you can in a relationship, unfortunately that doesn’t mean the other person will. Giving honesty does not mean the other will return it. Sad that this can’t be true, would be great if it was though. I guess maybe of you find the right person it could be true…. maybe. Here’s hoping.

Honesty.loyalty.and respect …it’s not that hard.dont do something to your partners back that you wldnt do if they were standing next to you….because someday….they may not be…sneaky is deceitful.still a form of lying…..hiding things.is hiding who you are and that’s a relationship built on lies and will fail.

The real battle, is trying to remain this way, after being dragged through hell, by the love of your life, just for them to cheat on you, and ruin everything.. After 4yrs, all 4yrs of her high school. A month after she graduated, she cheats on you with a freahman from her high school.. How do you remain, who you are, after something devastating.. I just don’t know.. ??

Fuck that. I’m probably just in a bad mood because my teenager is being a sullen little shit. But I gave my heart and soul to those bastards and all I got in return was a broken heart, broken home, and the wonderful prospect of having to pull myself up and start all over again. Fuck men and their fucking complexes.

this could not be any more wrong!!! I have always gave 100% and always loved with everything i had and never lied never betrayed and yet all I’ve ever gotten is no love, no respect, lies, betrayal and hurt

This is complete and utter bull crap… you never recieve what you give… to many people are so broken, they don’t know an honest, good guy, sitting in front of them…

Its absolutely wrong….
I gave her my time,my care,my luv,my loyality and every possible thing I could give her… I had given but in return I only got tears,heart break and Betrayal ??

We’d hope this to be true and want it to be true. Yet even if you are honest with some people they will still lie to you regardless.

What you “give out” does not always return. Some people are incapable of returning it for a variety of reasons. If this is the case you need to cut your losses and move on for self preservation!

Bull….I did all this and more. Went above and beyond. …all it got me was a crushed heart and soul. He cheated with his ex skank. Yea so no this doesn’t always work. That guy has to be a genuine man…with morals..Intregity. ..loyalty. yes works both ways…but so many need to grow the hell up!

I dnt think so.. I have given so much of my self to the people who are close to me that there is nothing left inside me for my self now… self worth and self love is important..

Not necessarily true. Sometimes what you give out, you can never get back. There are those that do not love, respect or know themselves to offer those same qualities back. Time to move on!

People will still give you crap… expect that to happen. Love and give anyway, other people’s burdens are not yours to bear.

That’s not all realtionship works. Even if u gave love u won’t receive love. Instead he’ll give you pain and heartaches. That will stay in ur memories forver. ??

Give yourself first. To give love, you need to love yourself first. This way if you will spread the love anyone who isn’t fair, you will protect you from that person. You are a jewel, rare and beautiful. Carry you heart with both hands and don’t let anyone to get too close until they prove they will be kind to it.

I did all of this and so much more. They cheated on me and begged to work it out and I gave them the chance to prove themselves and they just up and did it behind my back . After them pleading and begging me to give them another chance. I was totally honest and never fake with them, trustworthy and even they often said i was the most loyal and trustworthy woman they ever knew. none of this does any good. Some just want you as a toy, a play thing and once the newness wears off they are… Read more »

I disagree I have been there, helped loved and what I got in return is fake effort. When you meet the right person you might get back what you give. But winning the lottery is better odds that that.

But these days after doing all this they take u for granted.
And after doing D best u could if u recv their feed back like this that’s D worst kinda feeling. But never regret cos one day they will search for u in every person they will meet . . . . .

All this I don’t agree….
I’ve had my heart broken but this..
This is your own integrity and own honesty. You stay true to yourself and believe what you’ve done and said and felt was the right and honest and true thing.
They couldn’t return it and broke you? That’s their fault, their issues and their stuff. Never let them break your faith. Try and belive in love and continue to live.
I’m dying inside, but I’ll be damned if I will ever give up on love.

BS!!! I give my all & I’ve only been neglected, mistreated, abused, disregarded, unloved, played, cheated, hurt & disappointed up to this point. I don’t think I have much to give anymore. ?