Having been in so many relationships where she and I got along well, but were never extremely close, I would now rather find a woman that can be my best friend first and if there’s the right connection, have her then as my lover. No more finding someone and having a spark, then becoming lovers and then hoping the friendship develops to being best friends.

If you call them a lover but you cannot call them your Best Friend, you are doing something wrong. Best Friends first, then Lovers.

True yet these come along and are very rare sometimes they don’t even end up together, either one is scared of getting hurt and loves too hard and the other knows how they feel yet refuses to take a chance because they feel they wouldn’t have much to offer.

Definitely true indeed actually and also true fact to be honest because friendships more important because ya do need to know each other a lot more before ya move on and start being be in a relationship with that special person just give it some time and then treat that special person with care and also be there for another and learn more

I know if you love one another, and help each other on goals…And be there when times are hard, then WHEN things ate not so bad and you can joke, tease each other, laugh, play….then YES you can be each other’s best friend and lovers to…I know this CAUSE I love my soulmate And best friend…He’s called my HUSBAND…. we tease and play around, we are so good together, Ana when EITHER of us needs our best friend, we’re there for each OTHER… all relationships have ups and downs, If we didn’t, then your relationship WILL NOT last…. so if… Read more »

I don’t want to act like lover and friends for others I want us to be lovers and friends all the time,when you’re having difficulties connect to your partner talk to me so I can alert your partner(me)about what you’re going through

Who ever your partner is, they will eventually end up being your best friend

Oh! then I did a good job to maintain my relationship with my fiancee…. Just like the quotes…

not every relationship can make this. sometimes your partner dun wanna to.

That’s the Best Relationship………

The best relationships are ones that are actually real for once

We lost that. Got too tied up with work and family drama we forgot about each other. Now we’re both alone and life sucks

I don’t know why it says “act”, when you can just be. ?

Most girls in my experience just want the “best friend” part, fuck being lovers lol ?

Amen I married my best friend, we were friends forever one day I ask her to marry me , she laughed first an the next day she said ok , best day of my life, that was my 5th wife never been married very long but we have been together for 28 years

IMO, the word “act” should be changed to “be”….acting is pretending to be something you’re not.