Absolutely! Never thought I would say this but I am SOOOO happy now that I finally broke my chains free from the guy who is SO unworthy of my love!

Do i really because I lost half of me when I lost him

Single. New home all to myself and football around the corner… WINNING!!!

trueeeee agree addios miget?

Agreed. My past marriage … everything happens for a reason 🙂

I’m only doing what everybody does, being selfish and think of myself first! I lost someone and yes I found myself, so I won 🙂

In real sense we won.. but imginary sense we lose..so neither lose nor won justt in excited state sometime known as madness and crazy.

This sentiment is not realized right away. It takes a while to mourn the loss but once you’ve gotten to this point, it’s magical!

Loving someone with out knowing yourself is absolutely not good for having a relationship. So i absolutely agree.

If you lose someone and don’t “find” yourself, you still win.

Agree, my relationships always turn out the same, love you for who you are, then try and change you and never works out…If it’s what you wanted why change it, Amen I do believe in giving and receiving…

you won what? What if the other person won by getting rid of you…. or vice verse??? it’s not a contest where you have to win or lose. It’s just a learning experience

I’d rather be on my own and genuinely love myself every day, something I didn’t do enough in my past, than give my all to somebody who doesn’t even care but keeps pretending she does.
I absolutely agree!

Kung iniwan ka..at nakita mo sarili mo panalo ka?panung nawala ang sarili mo?joke. Its the toughest decision you’ll ever make..to choose to hold on or to find more of yourself “time” which ever side you go..its for you to decide if its wins or lose.your choice.your consequences.your reward… ?????

Sometimes it has to happen that way. Sometimes you don’t realize how much of you has been lost by trying to make things work with the wrong person.

Only had a couple of breakups in my entire life and I’m 54 years old the last one hit me hard I even bought a star with our name on it out in the constellation Orion
anytime I feel lonely I know at least I’LL be THERE forever with him you take away Irreplaceable memories and teaching from any good relationship you were in… life is a journey relationships are transitory so seldom do we ever find the one that is forever

I recently went separate way from someone that I honestly thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. When we first got together, I refused to change anything because he pursued me, so he had to make all the changes. But I wasn’t happy with life at the time, and together we proposed all these changes. I was supposed to move, and we were supposed to be together. I visited the place he’d called home his entire life and I thought I found my niche in the world for the first time in my life… And… Read more »

Agreed! I won. But so did he, he found the woman that he’s going to marry and I realized he isn’t the type of man I want to marry. God bless us both.

All about perspective I guess. I think people can be so quick to run away from things because it gets tough. When you truly love someone you have to stick by them through the good and bad. Finding yourself is fine, but if its at the expense of someone you truly care is that something to really be proud of? I think a lot of us have trouble accepting people for who they are and not just the idea of who they should be we have in our heads.

But sometimes its not about finding yourself , its about keeping that someone !

I certainly love my freedom even more now. I do understand and enjoy it better today.Every one once got hook with love.. that we gave all and somehow lost our own. Unconsciously we did that because we were so much in love with love but in the long run we then realized that we became the person who we were not.

Everyone that comes into your life teaches you a big lesson. You’re always gaining more insight to who you are and what you deserve…

I think that the problems with some relationship is that some where along the roads someone took the other for granted, and got to comfortably, and that is the way to lose interest in one another in other words we need to pay attention to ourselves first thing and that will help love the other person the partner, because we are separate individuals and we have separate needs.