Majority of these comments are backing up that WOMEN don’t cheat or that its the MANs fault.

Women do the same shit men do. Sorry, Princess.

A real woman too will cut off any man that threatens her relationship.

Amen. I had to leave my last serious relationship because after a year of feeling the relationship was being threatened and feeling uncomfortable in my own home, the “cut off” never took place. If someone does not put you as their priority, or chooses not to listen to your legitimate concerns, then it’s time to move on. As hard as it may be.

I don’t agree with this. Only women from the past need to be cut off. But if its a long time friend that hasn’t done anything and actually wants to be her friend then that’s something different. And vice versa for a guy. I would actually try to befriend him…now if its someone who they have a past with then cut them off. But at the same time both parties need to be upfront and honest with each other

It can go both ways… It is all about the variables. I think one thing to look at is how much time and attention are they spending with or talking to the other ? Are they flirting? Do they treat them better than their SO? Do they say things they don’t to their SO ? Is it cutting into time they could be spending with their SO ? Are they hiding it? If it’s impacting the relationship it may need to be looked at. And this doesn’t mean the SO is insecure or jealous necessarily, or maybe they are because… Read more »

Two way street here. A real woman wouldn’t feel threatened by anyone trying to get between her and her man. And if you feel like that be you a female or male, then you need to be asking why you are there. Because the truth is real love is unshakeable, so really it’s not about being a real man or woman.

Women are sensitive creatures..
So be wise enough to play ur cards right and hold onto the keeper in ur life if u really value her…… Let go off other distractions that haunt ur relationship..

my ex would say I had trust issues. he broke things off with me in February. Two months later I find out that he’s seeing her.
mmmmmm hmmmmmm

Lmao a REAL man wouldn’t entertain or even make it a situation where another female could BEGIN to threaten his relationship. He’d NEVER put his woman in a spot where the threat is felt

Just draw some damn boundaries, stick to them, and quit letting the insecure world tell you what is or what isn’t right. A real man won’t be bullied into something and a real woman won’t feel threatened by any female friends her man has. She’ll be crystal clear about the boundaries, and expect that he’s going to stick to them (as will he with her guy friends), but she’s not going to make it a them or me situation.

It is not gender specific stop being feminist. Welcome sensible talk. Because of such angling posts many out there are already living in fantasy world finding perfection and not remembering the fact that both are imperfect and incomplete and when matched, nurtured , nourished, and taken care well then they become nearly perfect.. it is on going not confined to fantasised thinking

A real woman will cut off any male that threatens her relationship with her man, a girl will say:”he is just a friend”

Real women can occasionally bring home other women for her and her man to enjoy together. I only talk to women who like women too because i can settle down with one women spiritual/ relationships wise but sexually i can NOT and I’m just being honest. I’LL live my life the way i please.

If anyone is capable of threatening your relationship to the point you or your partner feels the need to cut them off, you’re in the wrong relationship.

“Threat” is a relative terms. Usually women will perceive other women as a threat; however, the man will perceive them as friends, especially if they were friends before he met/started a relationship w/the person he’s with. Some people actually are okay with their partner having male and female friends. It’s all a matter of how confident you are and how trusting you are with the person you are with.

Yes!!!!! How can a husband takes pic with his wife and then send it to a next woman how hurtful that is and when he get found out he well tell you he dided mean it, things can never be the same and my love is dead.

My ex husband was a boy his past 3 marraiges. Will never be a real man but always cheats and marries the next to think he’ll finally be the complete happy man he wants to be. A person that in his own soul will never be happy always masking his dark depression with fresh and new until it fades and he is a sad soul again.. Vicious cycle I believe for him . hes 43. 4th marraige along with his 33 yr old brother too on his 4th marraige !!!!! Fucked up in the head men ? #8wives

Every man deserves a real woman. Same thing vise versa.

However I think people need to know the difference because sometimes the partner has insecurity issues or just aren’t really a good person and doesn’t like your close friends and demands you to break off the friendship.

Yeah. Like “we’re friends” or “we were friends before we got together” or “how can you tell me who I can and can’t talk to?”. It’s your ex booty call. You should’ve cut those ties once you got in a relationship.

A real person will cut off any other person whom threatens its relationship with its partner, an immature person will make excuses…

– this is not a gender thing. It’s not even a thing.. It’s obvious if you ask me, important to hold each others back and be loyal.

Honestly I don’t think you should put a friendship above your relationship. A relationship is supposed to be your most intimate relationship, the one person who is supposed to have your back no matter what and always be there for you. Both of those people have to put that relationship first . many times people say they’re just friends – they’re lying, one person has a crush on the other. Even if they never say it. Your relationship should be your number one priority. Yes men n women can be friends only if there is no sexual attraction. If that’s… Read more »

Threaten the relationship, not threaten the woman. Big difference. If a woman constantly feels threatened by other women, there is a major flaw in the relationship. This is saying that if a man recognizes that another woman will pose a threat to his relationship, that he will voluntarily make the move to secure his relationship. This has nothing to do with having female friends or acquaintances who are truly platonic. People seem to confuse the thoughts.

I think that not only the man should but it’s the woman that should cut off the men also. A true relationship is a two way street both have to work together to make things last!

A real woman knows another female cant threaten her relationship with her man, only her and her man can threaten their relationship.

If woman feels threaten with her relationship to him, its because there was a cheating history and she just decided to trust him again. So real man MUST cut off those women from the past and those women around him that threatens her. And if you are committed to your relationship, expect that your acts will be limited. Women’s instinct is always reliable.