You can’t make someone do anything. Love is a feeling it isn’t something you force on someone. When it comes to love, it just happens and there’s no “making someone choose you”. This phrase should be changed to : “when someone loves you, they choose to be your partner, your spouse, your soulmate, because they know that being with you is what matters and they’ll do anything to accomplish that. If someone chooses not to be with you, they don’t love you as a partner, spouse, soulmate or even lover. Someone who breaks up with you but still say they… Read more »

It’s to bad because even if you both love each other and one doesn’t want it. Some people can’t see something good for them even if your right in front of them

Its never fun loving someone that loved you, but suddenly just left so you are forced to be alone.

They might have person reasons which they cannot settle or compromise with you. Atleast they are honest. And for you, there will be person who will have no issues. They will choose you freely.

So people can still choose someone else even when they love you? I can’t imagine or understand that whatsoever. I need the psychology behind it.. I would actually really like to understand..

True. Someone may love you, but if they don’t treat you how you deserve.. they are definitely not choosing you (meaning deciding willingly to give you their attention and devotion). Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

I can say that it’s true… if you love someone and have a great connection. But u know deep down u can’t yourself with that person. Two different personalities just won’t work.. and if they just are not ready.. you can’t force anything

Dnt jugdes any0ne, c0z we dnt knw the wh0le st0ry, c0z there’s so many kind of st0ry behind and everyone have reas0ns and 8’s depend by situati0n. dnt telling any0ne ur sure wht m0ve u make and every steps u’ll take to f0ll0w ur dreams.N0. coz ths land is an evil to distruck ur mind and he gave wht our weaknesses and he get inside.Tnx

Well I think people jump into relationships TOO fast and don’t get to really get to know another and peaple think when they date their glued together for life and usually get together for the wrong reasons the only whomen that will make me settle down is the one who is going to have my kid honestly the rest are fish in the sea a natural waste of my time just my opinion 🙂 no offence to anybody 🙂

I loved my ex to death and still today I care about him and I always keep him in my prayers but the best thing for us was the we didn’t choose each other in the end. Nowdays, We are both married to wonderful people and we are both happy. Do I still love him and care about him? Absolutely! Do I rather being with him ? Nope…it simply doesn’t work. It never worked, never will…but I’ll always cherish him

You can make her ..once you be persistent and show her you’re about seriousness and wants her in your life. Women love when a man can be a man and be patient in what he wants.

Maybe the timing isn’t right for the both of you. Love has a lot of consequences. Wait for the perfect timing babe. 😉 What’s meant to be will always find a way. <3 <3 <3

Just because you with them doesn’t mean they love you neither. If you love someone you’re not gonna cheat.

So many narrow-minded people. “if they love you they would choose you” . Yeah okay. If your relationship is unhealthy and your SO beats you or disrespect you, would you choose them? If you get cheated on will you choose them? If they continuously stole from you would you choose them? No. So stop it. You will love them, but you have to choose what’s healthy for you. Not saying I personally went through that but it’s common sense. That’s why there are so many unhappy people in relationships now. Staying when it should end. Good luck with that. Always… Read more »

“You can’t make someone LOVE you, even when they might choose you.”

What?! If they love you, they’ll choose you on their own.

You can’t force someone you love to choose you even though they might love you.In love there is no selfiness no comparison it should be balanced.The person you love has a Love needed to share by his/her friends and family.Don’t make him/her choose between you in his/her family coz that’s a childish way.If he/she really might love you don’t need to do anything ,he/she will STAY in your Life.

Sometime only love is not enough for them to chose you, they prefer to pretend to be friend or ignore that feeling because in their heart love os not come first or you come at the wrong time or they not ready to accept it…or just accept or think that they didn’t love you is thw best, because if they really love you they will never let you go!#

if they really loved you it would not be a choice to make, cause they would be all about you an want to spend every free minute with you, anything less is just a waste of time

The fact that someone says they love you and want to be with you, yet don’t choose you is something I have struggled to understand for a few years. No, you should never make someone choose you, but if they love you and everything as far as the relationship is fine, then why wouldn’t they choose you? In this case, it is fear and addiction that had him continually running away from what he wanted. Apparently it is easier to move on and see how long he can make something else ‘work’ than dealing with his own issues and maintaining… Read more »

I’m not looking fr a perfect one. but I’m looking for someone who understands me not only my words but rather most of my silence.. :] #single
Fall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is hard <3

You make someone love you knowing that you force that person to love wish is wrong, if someone don’t want you just live in peace beause if you do force to beloved you a punishing yourself for no reason

This is a bullshit statement if someone loves you they will be with you if not then they dont really love you plain and simple!!!

My husband says he loves me; wishes he could be with me.
But yet he continues his life with his mistress.
If someone doesn’t choose you, then they really don’t love you.

I love my ex, but I choose to not be with her. She doesn’t get that I can love her and not be with her. If two people aren’t compatible, you can’t force it.