Unfortunately, true. However, it doesn’t mean that your best isn’t perfect for someone else, or that your best was only your best at that moment. We never stop growing and changing and getting better (hopefully)?❤️??.

It is ONE of the worst feelings in the world. The worst feeling in the world is receiving a phone call informing you that you best friend, who also happens to be your brother, was murdered by another brother. For me, THAT has been, by far, the worst feeling in the world.

Cant agree to this! I think the best satisfaction is that you tried your best but it couldnt work out! Atleast, You dont need to look back and repent later “May be i didn’t give in my best”

Yes it really is.. Even after everything you do to try to work something out between another person and lose value of you in their eyes after meaning so much to them for so long.. I don’t understand how this happens.

On the same boat here Eloy Silva , what really has helped me to have a peace of mind is by prayers, and letting go of the past and wish him well. In order to move on we have to let go of all resentments and most of all forgive them. Best of luck?

For some, it will never be good enough. No matter what you do, how you do it, how frequently u risk everything u have, it will never be good enough.

Definitely not true. In the end, you could always say “I did everything and anything to make it work. I gave my best and he had the best of me….” and that’s all that matters really… Knowing you did everything you could without regrets. Because that’s how love should be… And if that doesn’t work, you can’t blame yourself because you know you tried and gave your best. It’s never your loss. What’s worse is you did not do everything when you had the chance to.

If it wasn’t good enough, than she wasn’t for you. You could walk away with a clean conscience knowing that you did your best and move forward. I know it’s not easy, but God has someone better for you……Stay Strong, Stay Positive! Much Love……

No it’s not. If you know that you did your best then you have nothing to regret. The worse feeling is not trying at all, and wondering what could have been.

It’s not the worst feeling in the world, it actually releases me from the guilt associated with it. I can move on, where she, after her failed extramarital relationship is left to understand why she is where she is. Whether or not the second part happens, she’s a narcissistic sociopath according to the marriage counselor we had, the first part definitely has and I’m having a pretty decent life now.

Everyone allways points the wrongs but never points out the good thins and brings the past up to hurt you! Past is in the past, furure is now!

That is one way of looking at it. Another way is despite it not working out, you can sleep with a clear conscious that you gave it your best and there is peace in that.

It’s good enough. They’re holding back their approval for a reason. You can’t strategize in relationships, but people do. Not everybody.

WRONG. its not a bad feeling at all. its a feeling of release and freedom. you tried your best, it wasnt meant to be. want to know what is the actual worst feeling of the world? knowing you could have done something and DID NOT.

Honestly, I think it’s worse when you give something all you have, and finally feel like you’ve succeeded at it after years of trying, just to have it crushed by the person who is supposed to support you the most.

Sometimes it’s actually liberating. Once you truly feel you’ve done everything, been you’re best. Letting go, healing, can then happen. You can walk away without the doubt “could I have done more?” Freedom.

Buts it’s not a reflection of you. It’s the worst feeling cause the other person can’t see or won’t change them selfs in order to live a better life with you. She/he came up short. Do you really want someone like that in your life? Someone who can’t see what you offer to them and do for them. It hurts, but in the end, leaving and moving on to find someone who can love you at the same level as you, is the best thing that can happen.

no, the worst feeling in the world is knowing you didn’t do your best and always wondering if it would have been good enough

Nah, what’s worse is when you don’t even get a chance to give it your best. It sucks but I believe it’s God’s way of saving you from giving your best on the wrong thing.

Depends on whether YOU feel “it still wasn’t good enough” or if someone else is TELLING you that…for me…knowing that you have given your 100% and you ” did the best that you could”, allows you to walk away with a clear conscience….you did all you can!

`yup,m why i gave up on love, no one is real anymore, ive developed a new relationship with my gym, least i know that iron will never lie to me

If you did your best, and it still wasn’t good enough. Then it’s the person that’s not good enough for you. Anyone that’s good enough for you will accept you did your best!

If you tried you’re best it’s ALWAYS good enough! Life/love isn’t one big challenge, it’s a series of trails. Failure isn’t a measure of “good enough”, it’s a standard we set for ourselves to justify circumstances beyond our control, or another individuals choices. If you start giving other people the power to dictate what’s “good enough” you’ve lost yourself in an attempt to hold onto something that wasn’t meant for you. Likewise in life!

Sometimes they are hurting in ways that doesn’t let them see the GREATNESS you are. I went thru this almost a year ago and was devastated for awhile. Don’t forget to work on yourself constantly and in time this too shall pass…

I’m doing my best to stay out of her life, because I wasn’t good enough to stay as the best thing that ever happened to her…. no matter what I did, or what I would say to her, it wouldn’t have made a difference…. it’s been a year and I’m doing the best to move on with life and find my soulmate….