Been seeing this girl since last nov. And its been that way, i guess call me stupid for putting up with it. It doeant take much for her to delete me as a friend, and i keep running back. You can see a hell of alot on FB, from just observing. Why i dont walk away, i have no idea… deep down i know it isnt worth it…. I am destin for the toilet, i dont give up, and not a quiter. I see she help, she has problems (but who doesnt, right?!?!?) >i just want to help. I guess.… Read more »

I want someone to walk beside me/with me anywhere and everywhere. No secrets.

And when you say something about it they accuse you of being insecure or jealous just to take the attention off their inability to commit!

True. People should know who is your partner but be unaware of what is going on in your life 🙂

People just love the attention, and the back up plan.

If u really love someone , be proud to say so. WHY, hide it from others.I totally AGREE with some of the other Comments !!!!

Why would you want to be disrespected that why or any other ???

this is something either taught or not taught at home. It is the difference between king/queen or boy/girl.

If you cant let people know that youre taken, then you are a cheater.

Men, they just always want to have their cake and eat it too?
All I can say they r Piece of ?
Move on girls….

Exactly if you want me be with me.
No bs nobody wants a pretend BF !!!!!!

Try being with a girlfriend who says that she loves you but at the same time is unwilling to give up the multiple dating sites she still on and then when asked to get rid of them because she is in what I thought was a committed relationship with me then proceeds to freak out and say that I’m controlling… moral of my confession is some women are just as bad as men when it comes to commitment

Been on bouth sides of that that fickle girl that just really don’t want you. But don’t want anyone else to have you. It took a lifetime to find my sole mate . And their is no way . you can’t see we are married.not afraid to show it

That’s not always true!!! I’m married, but separated for reasons that make sense, then you would know the truth, if you care enough to ask?

If in his career he deals with criminals that at times have it out for them and their family…do you still shout it from the rooftop? Or just shout it to family and close friends?

What if they don’t want to shout it from the rooftops all around. For instance, at work, if you keep your personal life and business life separate…do you shout it from the rooftop there too?

Or they let other people know and still go on as if they are single.
Whether you are boyfriend/girlfriend exclusive, engaged or married unless separated, you are still In a committed relationship.
Some men say they ain’t no ring on my finger yet so I do what I want. Well in that case do what you want and say bye bye, cause if he’s gonna do it before the ring he’s gonna do it after the I do’s as well.

Been there. Nothing feels worse. After 12 years I have someone that makes the world know I’m taken and I feel so special it pains me with happiness. I’ve missed out on a lot of great feelings. Hope this is it for me. I don’t want to let go of the special feeling.

Amen! If they want to keep you under wraps, but say they want an exclusive relationship, believe me, they’re still whoring around. Just expose them and be done with it. The same goes when all of a sudden they don’t post pics of you together or when they do post, they “forget” to mention you are there, too. Your picture is no where around and while everyone there is tagged, you, conveniently, are not. Hmmmm…

If someone wants others to know that their SO is taken, then they should put a ring on it. Claim that bond and be proud of it. Don’t expect shit if you can’t commit.

Acting like you are single is the biggest mistake you can make when you are In a committed relationship. You are basically putting yourself out there like a single and available person. It’s so insulting and disrespectful to the other partner who is genuinely loyal to you. My partner knows I respect our relationship very much. I don’t give anyone the wrong idea. I let everyone know my heart is loved by my BFF soon to be lover?????

This is very true…a true relationship should be proud of..it doesn’t deserve to pretend that you are not taken even if you are..a sincere person who is committed and truly inlove to his or her partner shall never have any fear to shout out in the whole world or to tell anybody that he/she is taken to that person..cheer up be proud of what you have… 🙂