Sometimes assuming brings out the real answers that asking wount…. It has worked for me.

Assuming is evil, it will always get you into trouble, and your assumptions are never true.

If the Results are negative after asking it is worser than assuming

Every time I ask instead of assume. The answer I get is… “I don’t know” or no response at all!

Yes this can solve nost of the problems… makes yoj understand each other…but still there’s achance they can lie… so believe in yourself…

May strange idea but think it sounds like could work?!#!

Unfortunately. Assuming and not asking can badly hurt a relationship. It can even end a great one.

My husband always assumes! Even though he asks, he still assumes ?

Show the respect that would would expect from others….so simply and not crazy at all

But sometimes the assume becomes, I knew it that’s why I, didn’t ask?

ASSHOLES are created by taking assumption and presumption and squashing them together really tightly —

So true. But what if they are compulsive or pathological liars? Where you never get a truthful answer but always an essay of an explanation or excuse

you will always try to do it your own way when others have failed you!

no point in asking if all you’re receiving are lies

Help me pronounce that. Ass king? Is that white? I’ll try it.

i did that asking method.. it only made my heart broken.. but its fine.. better i guess.. truth really hurts..

Before asking, try to consider if they will tell the truth

I stopped assuming n started asking. Things got better. Moving forward.

Yes sometimes we assume without asking, which is completely out of control and it makes matters worse, so the best thing to do is ask questions.

One just has to try to trust again it’s not going to be easy i have serious trust issues but do you curl up in a ball and never try again? Nope not me life’s to short and I’m a work in progress and just have to keep on swimming…

Because after so many lies and missteps, asking doesn’t guarantee the honest truth anyway. People can and will, lie straight to your face if they think that they can get away with it.

I tried many times… but they always gave me answers i cannot handle.. answers that i dont want to hear.. answers that gives pain… and more often they’re just telling lies…thats why i stop asking ☺