This includes people who like to manipulate and win the arguments and they always think they are right never wrong sad stuck up people

Ain’t that the truth!!

Such truth. I stay though because I adore her.

Ain’t that the truth!!!

I hate to argue, I just can’t stress how hard it hits me when I argue, I feel stupid

Damn true! But truth it’s not about winning its about having your side too and just being heard not being shut out and have no commutation sucks!

So true! Always insist what is in her/his mind.. Always negative! I dont like a negative person coz you attract always negative.. You have supposed to be positive..

Once I’m was in sixth grade now I’m in seventh 90% of people marry there 7th grade love. since u have read this, u will be told good news 2night. if u don’t pass this on nine comments ur worst week starts now this isn’t fake. apparently if u copy and paste this on ten comments in the next ten minutes you will have the best day of ur life tomorrow. you will either get kissed or asked out in the next 53 minutes someone will say i love u

That statement nails it. Solution for Remedy; Redirect their Focus. Bring to attention of individual to bring out the best in you!

Yep and true jessica I agree negative people don’t start to argue mostly avoid it . Manipulater’s are the ones who enjoy it and twist it like they are not the wrong one ever . They won’t ever see constructive help or listen to what is said . I pray for them . It all we can do .

Consider that for some people this is an initial reaction to a change or something they struggle with but they will go home and process and sometimes c opinions and thoughts change. I am a more positive person but i am not one who always willingly adapts to change on a sudden basis or to new ideas and so my initial reaction is often negative v and defensive however after those initial reactions and further processing my views c and reactions change. Whilst i mostly agree with this statement. You never know what is going on behind those reactions. Having… Read more »

Reminds me of someone. He’s such a negative person and he brings his negativity upon me to bring me down. Thank god he’s out of my life now. Thank you Randy for kicking yourself out.

This statement is so true. Heather u are right on with ur comment. That is exactly what they do, say and how they act making it almost impossible 2 even try 2 communicate and work things out. The sad part is no matter how much u try or love them, they will never change so neither will the relationship. If u love them and urself, it is better 2 accept it 4 what it was/is and move on.

Winning?
Depression is an illness.
Do they want help or need to talk n have someone REALLY LISTEN??
Win. Gee whiz. Stuck in the need to b right?

Nah, just learn stronger communication skills. Some people are like a puzzle box. If you get really good, you will be able to open the most negative locked box you’ve ever seen. ?

And that’s why we have billy clubs and hatchets, The hatchet is more expedient at opening their minds up but depending on your level of frustration the billy club can provide a greater feeling of satisfaction…… hee hee

so true too many people full of themselves too take anything in

True! But it is not about winning…it is about meeting in the middle, caring enough to listen to each other with an open mind and heart and being willing to compromise. ??

So true and scarily I know so many of these! Sadly when you point this out or try to offer constructive criticism or helpul alternatives, you’re just met with more negativity. I wish for their wounds to heal and for the light to come into their souls x <3 x

It is comforting seeing the comments from men. I have always thought that because I am a female, I see things only from that perception. Knowing that I am a HUMAN makes me feel so much better.

Negative always complains and talks on everyone else business in the family and lies on themselves and their own talk of bs on people to start their drama gossip bs they can not remember their Shit but sure talks the bs on everyone else and what they do

So true! Some people are quick to judge others without looking at themselves in the mirror first and they don’t even practice what they preach. They are self-righteous, conceited, overconfident people who are so full of themselves it’s ridiculous!

Hardly say, almost perfect for negative people… they never understand ways and means of whati
you say… coz’ his/her mind is busy preparing opposing what you said.