I was totally in love with him since day one. A week before I would you said we had a terrific marriage.

Cheaters are assholes who how the lowest self esteem

My heart has been splayed open by a cheating husband.? I don’t know how to understand this, cope with it, or move from abject grief to healing. Its I me been two weeks. It’s hell.

Amen to that!

?so you have nothing to do with that
Don’t blame yourself
Set yourself free
???

This is NOT always true.

And You are losing urself form you@@@

right in the feels. found out yesterday morning that my husband has been cheating on me, and I see this.

The most important thing is to remember to get rid of them pronto

Austin Giron we both need to take notes on this… me mostly lol

Cheating isn’t just an act; if your mind is already wondering there, you’re already parting ways. End it and move on and be happy somewhere else and leave before you pollute someone with that unbelievable disrespect of deception. Cheating is sexting, flirting, kissing and doing ANYTHING you wouldn’t be okay with your partner doing.

Be a man, (or woman) and leave a relationship that wasn’t meant to be with class. It doesn’t cost anything to be a decent human being.

Yep try NarcHell with a narcissist they lie so much they believe they are speaking the truth when they are lying Lol

Man up, end it and truly wish her the best and actually mean it….

Exactly. There’s a difference between being sorry for being caught to being sorry for doing wrong whether or not you’re caught.

Ya I played a role and couldn’t let go enough to thoroughly forgive them for they did now I’m suffering the loss I played a role in

I’d like to think she’s sorry b/c that was some bs! It seemed to be all about her and little to no consideration for me. Your ex is an ex for a reason…so I thought.

End it but don’t be an ass about it because there always that sex only person who took their attention from you
Wether man or woman the side piece will not care about you or them
They will just be another notch on the belt

So true there only sorry because they got caught and in my case he can’t even show he’s truly sorry
Because obviously he’s not
They won’t know how it feels until it happens to them

The one person you thought would never cheat on you or hurt you does… never in my life did I think this would happen… then even after having proof it’s still denied… and my fault… a person can only handle so much lies, dishonesty, going behind my back… I didn’t deserve any of this 🙁

My ex cheated and lied. His second choice side chick found out just how little he cares and respects her. He lied to her about so much so he could use her. He didn’t do that to me. He didn’t really lie until the last couple weeks. He started and continues to lie to her. He wasn’t sorry to her because he felt bad. He was only sorry for getting caught. He played the victim so well.