Been there. Done that. I should have known better. We actually broke up over it, and when we got back together we broke up again when I found out VIA FACEBOOK he was in a relationship with someone else. You just can’t make this shit up.

That’s why I’m always doubtful for our relationship

Depends though…if you’re in the military and y’all are different ranks then it’ll have to be a secret. I’m not encouraging it but you can’t help who you love.

If someone is married or taken and the other person knows but is still messing with them that would be called a secret,,not airing the details of your personal life isnt a secret its being private.

How can you keep a secret like that if you have friends/family and socialise?? You may keep it low key but not private. unless of course it’s a forbidden one then yeah you shouldn’t be in it. Lol

Sadly, I allowed myself to be a secret when I resumed spending time with my ex-fiance. I should have honored myself & spared myself the messiness & heartbreak that followed. Painful lesson.

There are more chances of getting ditched if u are in a secret relationship

Truth won’t hurt as much as keeping a secret

So true…it just wasn’t meant to be or the person that wants it a secret isn’t into you as you are…and that should tell you to walk away…I guess a relationship that is kept in secrecy is just best known as a booty call!

Yes but if it’s equally agreed on both parties then there’s no problem in that just saying the world don’t need t know shit. Although I have just recently posted something up but that is only cuz my ex is straight trippen
But yeah I don’t mind a secret lover I guess that’s just me though. PERO if I’m forever a secret and we been together for MonthS then nah can’t hang I wanna go to the cookout too bruh lmfao

Excuse me but a relationship is not a secret therefore it would be called cheating.

why kept it secret?because you still have a relationship w/ someone.and you cannot accept the pact that your b-tch..

Shouldn’t support someone to make you there secret at any cost. The one who loves you, should be proud to show you off to everyone around em.

A relationship is no ones business but the two people in the relationship.

Maybe some people want their relationship to be kept a secret cause it’s no one else’s business cause once they find out they start trouble and if that happens the two people in the relationship break up which sucks especially if it’s someone you have been looking for your whole life.

Not a secret, just private and not everyone’s business!!! Some people need to run to social media or a friend and tell every detail about their relationship, then get mad when people form an opinion or start acting funny!!! Everybody is not happy for your relationship especially when it’s great!!! So keep a little for the two of you!!! ???

Yes its true because somewhere somebody is hurting and wandering what reason there is to live when they figure out the truth . Sad !

??? if someone can’t or won’t proudly say yes this is my partner, yes I’m taken then it’s not worth being in no matter what they say. Actions speak louder than words and everyone deserves to be with someone who is with them proudly..not a “secret”..has nothing to do with letting your relationship air to everyone or letting anyone know all your business but it’s a respect factor.

What if your relationship is because you have multiple personality disorder and your other personality is with your friend but the personality that’s usually incontrol is a dick and they hate that one so your other personality has a relationship with them because that’s where all ur humanity is stored at?

Even if you don’t want your personal life mixed in with your professional life?! Where should boundaries be set?

There’s a difference between keeping your problems from everyone and keeping the fact you’re in a relationship hidden from most people. I know from experience that being kept a secret from his friends and acquaintances ended with one being the side chick. She supposedly knew nothing of me. He told me he was claiming me to everyone. At first, I kept the relationship a secret because threats from my kids’ father scared me. Then, I started telling everyone, including him, that I cared for and was going to be with my love. I was proud of him and wanted everyone… Read more »

if you are in a relationship… then why the secret…!!!
and if there is secret then….probably there may be cheating…!!!

How people go about their relationship it’s subject to them and how things have gone in their past relationships. I for one in my future relationships, I won’t announce or post that I am in a relationship until I see how things go in the relationship. So to me the issue is really when they keep secrets from you. Once that starts happening is when I agree with this statement.

Yah can’t be a secret when the other is using it to claim “single” when really they are not. Not cool. Otherwise I do believe, with trust, it’s the two in the relationship

I dont agree to this! Everyone has a reason! So RESPECT! As long there is TRUE LOVE in it, theres nothing wrong for keeping it as a secret…. Each one has the right to love secretly or publicly… ?