Too many people are in such a hurry to find love but confuse it with sex… Better to masterbate and wait the time it takes to find real love!

Because they see a pattern,
Doing their best to break from it,
Easy Love is that,
Easy Love,
It comes and it goes,
So many look for physical attraction & chemistry.
So few look for what’s inside of them.
Like how they were raised,
Their belief in God,
Or how they actually live their life.

Especially with so many looking for someone to live off of or to blame.

We desire pain to overcome when looking for love, it stings. It takes a great heart to absorb its cause…

People nowadays just don’t tell the truth I would rather be straight up then to lie in somebody face that’s crazy like telling a lie is the new trend

at 52, been deceived and cheated on so much, just giving my heart a break. Maybe one day, the right guy will open the door to my heart?

We’ve all been hurt. It’s part of life. You get up, brush yourself off and get back on the horse. When you don’t, the jackasses that hurt you win and you’re a pussy

Damn right! From being betrayed again. Fk that. Once there was something which existed that causes one to keep that flame burning. When this something is realized to have been all for nothing, it leaves nothing to give purpose to. Nothing is left to be afraid of or lose. Nothing is left to hurt the soul when the worst has occurred resulting in total shutdown. Every good word is but a reminder. Every good intention only rises doubt. Each sign of affection just digs deeper into the soul. Nothing seems real anymore. Only the shell remains with darkness within. I… Read more »

That’s so true because I got a wall up I don’t even look at them the same lust over love that’s what I call it

The men today do not want a good hard working independent woman, they want these little run down females that need them that don’t work or ever have their kids. They need females not women..that’s why I stay distant.

Had a few broken relationship n thought I met the one for me a few months ago turned out he’s so broken n emotionally unstable I tried to help him but he completely shut me out n closed the door on me I’m broken right now I don’t think I will ever love again.

Amen!! Oh you can love again…trust me…but people seem to never care nor try anymore…so I keep my walls way up!! ?

That is me right now. Fell in love with a great guy who loved me and loved my child. He moved away to follow his dreams, and guess I was no longer part of that equation. It sucks.. But honestly, now, I don’t want to try again. Took a lot out of me… 🙁

Been hurt too many times by loving people. After my fiancé left, I put a wall up to never feel love again. Except to my daughter.

Love? What’s that? I’m done with all that foolishness. No way in hell I’m opening my heart or even the positivility to love or like or date anyone. Nope, No, Hell to the No. I’ll stay single for ever if I have to. Idc. Honestly, love is just nonexistent for me. No thank you!

When you’ve been hurt over and over again repeatedly, we put up a shield around our heart to protect ourselves. We even close off every aspect of love, because it terrifies us to open up to someone who could potentially inflict the same pain as everyone else did before. Love isn’t hard to find, have or keep. It’s finding the right PERSON. And when you find the RIGHT person, then you will understand what love is supposed to be. You can allow yourself to love again. Don’t give up, just be careful and follow your heart. ?

Which is why if you are still sore and upset by past relationships you need to take time for yourself. I was single pretty much 3 years after my divorce before the man who continues amazing me. Wait for someone who just clicks and feels natural around. Don’t settle for less than you want or deserve

Here I am thinking that LOVE was something that happens naturally when TWO people SEE things in each other or experience feelings together they think they cant live without.
If I need to cast a spell on someone to have him then I don’t want him.

People open up to others to fast when all they have to do is to be patient . We rush into things to fast letting our private parts get the best of us sex is not love and it will never be it cannot be love so next time you you are looking for love ladies keep it closed and guys zip it up and give the relationship time to grow be patient and don’t rush ok

i never been in love or either in relationship with girls but i got rejected too many times and so damnnnn

broken heart happened again and again i’m not really that smart when it comes to love because i gave my 101% pure love.. when i lose it i find hard to overcome specially when u found out that after a days of break up that someone u care and love the most are already happy with someone else while ur still in the process of moving on.. it hurts so much so idk why life is so unfair but trying to get back my life.

This is sad and very true. It makes it almost impossible for the right person to come along and love you. Love with you whole heart or don’t love at all. Otherwise you are wasting your time and the other person’s time too.

There is no such thing as the perfect guy or girl so forget it love is something that grows through something called friendship . A lot of us are together in a relationship but their is no friendship in the relationship ,friendship is the most important thing in a relationship think about it how could you expect a relationship to work if you aren’t good friends . A friend is someone who you confide in someone who knows you better than anyone you will tell them anything . If their is no friendship theirs no relationship and the only way… Read more »

Oh i have been hurt many times and pretty bad at that. But I refuse to give up hope feel bitter and never feel real love again life is too short. Just be cartful who u have a relationship with and go step by step