Sad part is not many people can handle you keeping it ??? that’s the sad part. I’m a firm believer after a failed marriage that if you do NOT have a great communication foundation where both parties can take hearing about each other and understanding that you two should be the first ones to think about each other when you get good or bad news , then you may be Down a bad road.

Sometimes you have to lie for the best interest of your spouse.

Exactly…and so does Secrets; unless its a surprise for your partner.

There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature.

I never lied … but why? when ive already tell them everything thats the moment they change and leave

I really hate being lied to! If I find out a person lied and they didn’t come clean I would never trust them again.

At least this one. If you can lie you will do everything else negative. Always be truthful. Its harder to remember lies.

It’s sad, but some people will never get this. Lying has become a accepted part of every culture (not saying its right) and personal, physical enjoyment now trumps honesty and loyalty…very sad

So true! That and cheating all go together. If you have to lie about something to cover it up, you shouldn’t be doing it to begin with….At least if you love and respect the person you’re with.

cheaters always lie and once a cheater always a cheater. They tell you what you want to hear just enough to keep you hanging on you keep telling yourself that it’s the truth what they are telling you but in truth the actions speak for more than empty words, empty promises. the chances are that if they have been promising you world for long enough now and haven’t followed through they probably never will but you are too scared to let go of something that you think it good and you are missing out on something better.

Actually opposite. If you want a relation t9 be burned … quickly enough – don’t lie.
But if u want to save and last – know when shut your mouth … and what to say (truth or lies) when opening it.

But they always do. And one thing that aggravates many of us is the fact that not everyone can play that role. Those who are loyal and truthful to the other person, will always be that way (atleast I am). As much as one wants to play the same game, it’s just hard. Being too loyal sucks. You get stomped on regardless, while the other person thinks everything is going well meanwhile they’re telling their friends they want to fuck someone else.

Lying is different from cheating so don’t confuse. You may lie for good reasons and that is acceptable in any relationship but cheating is abomination.

Please don’t get caught up in blaming and anger and righteous indignation try to do the best you can give it all to Jesus and move on because nothing sours a potential lover or a man who will want you as a sour attitude or being bitter! you’re not looking for that in a man and a man’s not looking for that in a woman so when you sound off and blame the man who left you remember the man or woman God would have for you might be listening!

that’s true lies are the reason why relationship ends.

Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There is no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time, with the right person and for the best reason. Fall in love when your ready, not when your lonely

It’s not just about not lying when it comes to a relationship. It’s about being with only one women or one man . You can’t be dating two at the same time. When just dating someone or whatever it may be is it really fair to open up a new chapter if you already got one going. Who get hurt in the long run you or them ?!!!

People always wants from thr partner to b royal n truthful. Regardless how big liar n cheater they itself r…..

Trust and honesty are important along with many other things like kindness, respect, consideration, and gratitude. If you want a long term relationship. Be there, fully present, and make your relationship your first priority. Involve your partner as much as you can in your work and other activities. Be a team. Allow each other the space to have some quiet and alone time. Set aside play time/ date time. Be quick to forgive. Keep things in perspective and be tolerant.

Sometimes people feel that’s what needs to be done in order have a relationship but in actuality, it causes the relationship to based upon smoke and mirrors. The smoke clears and the mirrors break, and then they don’t understand why it ended so badly.

Sometimes you can’t always be honest ..there still some point in relationship that you need to Lie because you’re saving the Relationship to not mess up.Lying is not a sin at all its a choice.

Never lie! Exactly! Never lie to save someone’s feelings! Never lie to “keep a promise” never lie about breaking your promises. Never lie about your life! Just don’t lie about about anything – that goes for both sides

truth is the true essence of any relationship….though sometimes it will be bitter…but as time pass….that bitterness also pass….but the relationship will remain intact and the bonding… till end.
so never lie….its easily said but difficult to accept.

If u want a longterm relationship, one must first find the right one. Never settle for people you KNOW are incapable of giving what u want or not mature enough to know what he/she wants. Also avoid shallow jerks and manipulative users/abusers (which is obvious but should be pointed out). A longterm relationship will be successful only when you find a person who WANTS a longterm relationship, a person who WANTS you enough to make a continual effort to KEEP you, a person who SHOWS you examples of him/herself being able to be in the picture with you in your… Read more »