Stand up for yourself, even people that Love you will think you’re okay with the way they are treating you. Speak Up !!!

That’s true:so dont complain to people about it.when your allowing it.because only you can put it to a end

It’s never too late to grow though, and sometimes you have to choose wisely on when/what you’re okay with

If you allow to continue maybe you.allow that to continue coz it is good and also u want to test ur self to face that…even it is bad.or.good…hehe

If you don’t want something,don’t allow it at the first place.
Cuz if you do,you have accepted it and it will continue till the end…
#Stay_Focus

But some things are so hard to just overlook and not allow, sometyms things just get the better of us and end up tied up to them… its just not that easy…

Yep, relayed this one for years! You don’t want to fight everyday with someone who is immature leave them! I wanna spend my life in peace!

That is so true. How often I have been through this before I learned what was acceptable versus not. And then having the courage to say so!

This is what I allow: kindness, respect, integrity, wisdom, creativity, abundance. Please remove anything that does not contribute to these.

I’m going through a very hurtful breakup right now and I feel like such a fool cause I did everything for her i loved her for who she was flaws and all. I accepted things I would never except from other people because I cared so much about her. Then about a month ago she just leaves after a 8 month relationship. I know it wasent the longest relationship but I really loved and cared about her. I’m 37 and she’s 24 a little of an age difference I know but the way she just left no explanation no nothing… Read more »

Yes! Michael is who matters most and it is the right thing it’s the process I’m worried and scared of?? I’m damaged right now and I have to be strong and ” Just Do It”! Recovery links to happiness and that is/or was, who I am! I love the old happy Kayla, you would to… She is the best!!! Love you pretty lady! Thanks for being a ray of sunshine in my thunderstorm of a world! “Partners” not just another coworker! I love Starbucks!

Boy isn’t that the truth

dont allow yourself to jump into a relationship unless youre sure of yourself – that way things dont continue like they used to plain & simple.

It’s mind over matter….and very possible the hardest things to control are the things you actually can…#prayhard #loveyourselfalittle and #findstrengthtomoveon

Absolutely agree, so straight forward, but can be so hard to change sometimes.

If you don’t stand up for your own heart, how can you expect anyone else to?

I’m a guilty of this, but no more, it is a bad habit. I’ve taken control of me. I decide for myself and do what I need. No one slacks or your out. To old for that shit and it hurts your feeling even though you created that monster.

I was just confronted with this very issue. My ex contacted me and wanted to talk. Three years after the break up…..I listened and decided no. Lonliness is awful but going back to someone who did you wrong. No way that would be telling him it was okay, and I was willing to except that crap. I have made this mistake in the past thinking I could change him. People do not change!

Although I agree this is often true… I refuse to treat people the worst way I can get away with. I prefer to treat people as they deserve and as I would expect to be treated. And that is especially true for the man I love. He deserves to always be treated with respect and dignity and most certainly care and love

This is very true lady’s ,, it just becomes a habit,, you have to break , this comes from someone with a lot of experience

The Bullshit is over, Now, spent almost two years fighting to repair something I myself destroyed, But in a twist, perhaps karma, tables turned and I suffered for what I lost,
at last the lines been crossed for my self respect, and the bullshit it over now.

I guess I’m stuck in limbo… and a boundary I didn’t want to create in the first place with someone I truly love. I respect both sides. But this ends up with me having nothing… mind over matter, I will try my best to reach out to her

No one to blame but myself… Now there’s nothing but repetitive disrespect??? shit we do for love… Sometimes love isn’t enough

Wow isn’t that the truth!! U set the precident how u allow ppl to treat u…stand up for urself, set boundries, & communicate them loud & clear ?

#findingstrengthtomoveon Ending something with someone you had a deep connection and love with is not ever easy, but it’s the right thing to do if they cannot treat you with love kindess and respect. It’s devastating because all you wanted was for them to love you the way they should and could.

Absolutely . When you are in a relationship set your boundaries . If they are not respected then move on and run away