Sometimes forgiveness doesn’t have to be granted, we need to accept as human we make mistakes and learn from those mistake. If those we hurt don’t understand and decide to move on. We must find peace in ourselves knowing we try our best to make things right and let life take it’s course! ?

forgiveness has been the hardest lesson for me to learn in my life. Hope I ma better at it than I once was….

Know the difference between a mistake (accident) & something taken for granted. Mistakes can be forgiven, actions done because they didn’t think they would get caught are malicious and may be forgiven, but never forgot! Quit trying to suffice your lack of morals or ethics as a mistake!

Unless they keep making the same damn mistakes without learning from them or caring to improve upon them and wrecking peoples’ lives in the process Karma!!

Right but tell that to those who are supposedly full of confidence. They are the the ones always pointing the finger and snitching.

Sometimes they are only called a mistake by certain people if they get caught doing wrong!!!

Yea (answering the oringal post) I do because I didn’t listen to any one. Now my kids mom will torcher all I care abought till driven mad or thrown in jail or both

GOD forgives and wipes your slate clean.
Man doesn’t. Remember Moses was a murderer but GOD used him to deliver his people from Egypt . David had someone killed to marry his wife. David was a warrior for GOD. In Forgiving someone it heals you so that I can pick up and go on.

So true….Unfortunately some people hold grudges. They know who they are. Guess what it’s your problem not mines. Hello life goes on.That’s why you give your love unconditional. We all make mistakes…..Keepn real 🙂

Everybody do mistake nobody is perfect but after realizing them down live on it you should have to give a chance for your own happiness.You deserved to be happy but always remember that every mistake you need to learn it and dont do it again so you wont feel guilt.

So if she comes back after leaving me for her manager thats 15 yrs older than her and has a 9yr daughter its ok to take her back? Even though she was quick to have sex with him? Even though she said shed rather be with me but she couldnt break his heart but mine was ok to break

A mistake is something that happens once and is not calculated and drawn out. I have made mistakes but it’s just that a stupid mistake that does not get repeated. The problem is there are so many people in this world that are mistaking their character as a mistake and continue to do harm.

What if the person who makes the choices is also a bad person…..and he doesn’t not feel guilty afterwards?

True. And, also they don’t have to pay for other people’s mistakes. Never make them pay, even sometime they are willing, still it’s inhumane to do that.

meanwhile, assholes just keep being assholes cus dumb bitches post shit like this while i’m sure they’re posting something hypocritical and the polar opposite the next day. rip.

No they don’t. I’ve spent my day driving to put my demons to rest. Forgiving those who wronged me because the hurt and anger have destroyed my life more than what they did. Let it go before your vengeance makes things worse.

Isn’t that the point of our legal system? Getting punished for the rest of your life for a mistake instead of actually helping people

I don’t agree with this…there are some mistake which changes the whole course of your life….they are irreversible…unforgettable…

Sadly though some mistakes are irreparable. My sis cheated once on her hubby, got caught and it devastated her life and kids. My brother Steve shot up once with a dirty needle back in 1988. He contracted AIDS and died. My classmate in college played Russian Roulette once…he became a vegetable after blowing his frontal lobe to smithereens. No, some mistakes are so bad that the consequences last a life time. Thus, tread carefully.

Well guess what? It’s not my job to kiss their ass to prove it to them or to pay for their mistakes INSTEAD of them either!!!!!

There are some mastakes wich changes the course of life,speacialy if you trust a person who said i will love you forver untill this person breakes your heart and never says sorry

Actually sometimes you do. Sometimes the repercussions are permanent. If you kill someone, for example, it doesn’t matter how sorry you are, how deeply you regret losing your temper, how sure you are that you will never do it again, that person will still be dead. And you will have that guilt. That is paying for your mistake. If you are any kind of a decent human being, living with your own guilt should be harder than any fine or jail time or other form of punishment. Or if you cheat on someone, you may lose them forever. No matter… Read more »

Some things can not be forgiven and do not deserve to be. I will never forget.
Will I forgive? Maybe but probably not, more like some day I won’t care as much but I will never ever forget.
It takes a special kind of selfish person to expect they can do anything and still be forgiven.