I forgave her every time, never reminded her of her past and at the last moments i came to knew she was cheating me from a month, but at that time too i forgave her just in 10 mins max but even tough she left ?. In my whole relationship i never remained angry on her more than 2 mins and it might had happened 3 to 4 times in those 2 years. Because I loved her from the first day i saw and now i think soo i was mad, i lost my own worth ahead of her. She… Read more »

You forgive everyone, or your own heart will grow bitter.

We should always forgive even if we lose them.

Forgiveness accepted trust denied ….

One can forgive up too a point, if the same thing happens over and over its better to move on.

even if they don’t deserve it YOU do!! forgiving for yourself is more important, it gives you peace even if they aren’t deserving of it.

Its ok to forgive but NOT ok to allow that person to keep doing the same things over. Then you are allowing them to walk over you. You can forgive and let go. If they love you, they will do right by you.

Time and time again, because those of us who do that, believe that this time they will have learned and never do it again… Because we love them and want them to know we are behind them ..

Even if they don’t deserve it you do. But Forgiving for yourself is more important, even if they are not deserving of it.

Forgiveness is for the forgiver. It makes no difference if the other person is worthy of it or how they react to it.

Everyone deserves forgiveness…. If not God would not forgive us everytime we fail. Whether everyone deserves a second, third, and fourth chance is another story.

What does God say about forgiveness?
The Bible gives us much instruction when it comes to forgiveness.
We forgive because we have been forgiven by God (Ephesians 4:32).
We forgive in obedience to God (Matthew 6:14-15; Romans 12:18).
We forgive others to gain control of our lives from hurt emotions (Genesis 4:1-8).
We forgive so we won’t become bitter and defile those around us (Hebrews 12:14-15).

They may not deserve it, but you do. Forgiveness helps us too, to let go of past bad feelings and anger. Holding onto all of that is unhealthy.

The bible says to forgive its why Jesus died on the cross for our sins. So youre a sinner do you deserve to be forgiven??? You are not here to judge!! Forgive and move on its part of life. You live to hurt and love, it makes us who we are in the long run..

Foregiveness also makes us healthy. Cuz we aren’t holding on to the bitterness which is like a cancer.. that doesn’t mean we have to forget it.

I don’t want anyone in my life. Honestly the person who hacked my phone you don’t even deserve happiness I’d never do that to you but I must have said the truth that’s why you did it. I’m all set with that shit. No friends I had including my children’s father dint even deserve my presence nor their family especially I’m all set thus last year put the icing on the cake. Kick rocks bitch.

If someone does not want to “repent” or change, he does not need to be forgiven but actually desires another chance of trying not to commit the same mistake etc.! However if one is repenting and then showing that he HATES to commit the same mistakes or “sin”, then he will have stronger urge for avoiding the mistake! An addicted gambler cuts his fingers off is making sure he cannot hold cards and the like anymore!

No one deserves forgiveness but you should give it anyway. Not forgiving others will hurt you more than them every time.

This is so true but they are just going to keep repeating the same behavior because there is no consequence.

If your spouse was diagnosed with PTSD and Major Depression, would you give up on them? When all they needed was your attention and love to make it thru the day. Or would you take it personally and shut them out? I really encourage your response. I’m curious.

We’re human, we’re not a super human. We have feelings and everyone is different. The heart is beautiful and sometimes it’s hard for us to let go. But we must be strong and forgive. We have to learn from our mistakes and make sure not to keep on repeating them.

Yeah I’m so forgiving that he still treats me like crap. I think this life I have now with this person is over. I’m done being stepped on and yelled at for no reason. I deserve better.

There comes a point of deciding to let go and letting go and hanging on are totally different than forgiveness itself! Sometimes the best forgiveness is letting go and moving on. Then there’s forgiveness and giving chances to correct themselves. But hanging on is indecision, stagnant, unchanging, and continues to repeat itself til someone makes a firm decision which way to proceed and takes true action!

Quit watching my life relationship rules!

Forgiveness of another has absolutely nothing to do with whether they deserve it or not it’s whether we deserve the Peace of Mind so we are able to move on