Ladies what would you do if your man told you he was going drinking with buddies, but not once did he call to say he got home safe.

Prier Herrero! Ain’t that the truth!

Omg for reaaaalll!!!! Current situation no joke.

Very true but that’s what love is tolerant, trusting, patience and understanding.

Yeah but when the relationship falters, that caring diminishes and you tolerate less and less.

But dnt make ur loyality ? become their slavery ?

I have to say my relationship with my tim is a two way street 50/50 and than there time it not but you work on it and have a date night

Oh honey child- ain’t that the truth!!!

Right??? Babe it’s a given how much I adore you. All the sh*t I put up with,from u know who. So no questioning my love for you. ?

I didn’t even realize I was mentally abused until I had been broken up with and reflected. I didn’t realize how miserable I was until I read my journal 2 years after the break up.

A person can only take so much… Out doesn’t mean they don’t love you or care about you out just means that what ever it is they are doing really hurts cuz you really care…

Not disrespect nor cheating.

Like a broken heart or holding back your own feeling (which they’ve always known about) to help them because you know that you’ll never make them as happy as you wish you could but any happiness you do bring them helps to dull the ache. At least for a little while

True but it’s worse when you put everything into a relationship and the broad didn’t love you equally or as much as you loved her. My ex gf her brother in law was a drunk went to AA meetings and her sister put up with him through thick and thin and I didn’t carry any baggage like he did but his relationship lasted while my relationship with my ex gf did not. The reason is because her sister had true love for him and my ex did not.

Yeah until you can’t do the hateful words, the mean comments about you and your body. And the way he treats you was like a dog. They will never change. They are all the same.

Yeah your telling me how crazy it is. How much you’ll do for someone you love yet they just completely take advantage of that. Use you for what they can get out of you, yet you just let it happen. Very sad what we do when we care

Wasn’t just tolerance for a long time, I wanted to do it but realised it was to my detriment & was just getting taken advantage of & sad when you no longer have the desire to want to keep doing it, even for love.

Things can be crazy for the ones you really like… I think people forget about what they have in front of them.. Sad

That’s the way life is, and we must take the bad with the good, how else are we going to learn, and when we tolerate for someone we care about we’re almost perfect, if at end it doesn’t workout at least you gave it your best, and move on having learn from the experience it make you feel better about yourself, no hard feelings.

true.. but then it didn’t work out. Now I’m thinking what did I do with the last year and a half of my life?

Tolerating stuff is too stressful. Better off alone. Learn how to tolerate yourself so you won’t just “tolerate” a person while thinking in the back of your head they will change. They won’t. Build a bridge, get therapy, & get over it. Life is too short to just tolerate shit from people & this goes for family & friends too, not just lovers.

I don’t just get it , If people really love you , why do they ignore you? I can’t ignore my loves one ! Even if I want to , But i can’t! Its simple ! If somebody ignores you , doesn’t loves you !! We should get over it !! But the harsh reality is , it’s impossible to get over somebody you sincerely love and care about 🙂

Very true. Anyone who knows me knows how much I not only I loved, but also cared for my husband the last 2 1/2 years of his life…never will understand what I did to him.in his mind to make him hate me so.

Until you start getting tired nothing or no one cant point it out to you either, smh. But once those eyes open……..

Exactly. Trying to keep a relationship alive when in the end it was only a responsibility, not a relationship anymore, is what made me realize that I deserve someone who can tolerate me. Not just be a one way street