not necessarily true. everyone has their own lives to live. they aren’t entitled to hold your hand throughout life.

True… Kept loving with all good wishes for her…. yet she felt loved less and thy be broken forever

Thank God i’m lucky in that case ?… we only argue and have fights? whenever I refuse to join them or hangout with.

What if your absence is a good thing to them? Lol not everyone is a good guy just forgotten some are drama makers left behind

So true Jacks absence is killing me and there’s nothing I can do but try to deal and that seems to be hardest thing to do! Every random moment it’s just like bam here it is now deal. And that feels like I’ve just got stabbed in the heart!!

Elvis, I Fucking hate that I need you like air . Like flowers need the sun. Like fish need water. I hate that you stir me in a way no one ever has before, and I don’t even know what of anything I mean to you. I Fucking the that I can love you so hard and deep. And you can not.

My ex lost his phone blocks me on Facebook and did not respond to me. That is a crappy way to break up with someone. And suddenly he talk to me and said be is moving back to West Virginia to have a Fresh Start.

Right on point but that’s only how you and I see it from our point of view. What if it does effect the other person but he/ she is trying to hide their feelings due to some circumstances?

Half right
Their presence mattered when they wanted to be present in our lives
If a person himself/herself decides to walk away from us; what is the point in keeping their presence alive and living in the past

Someone else shared this today. It hit me just as hard when I read it then. Knowing that all you’ve given to someone can so easily be thrown aside hurts my heart.

What do yo u do when there absence does matter, but it dosnt matter to them even with them not know just how much it matters to you???? Why become absent to start with? Emotions are such a great thing to have but at the same time so shitty…. Still worth all the pain knowing u can care so much

This is dumb. If you expect others to react to your absence negatively then you are full of yourself. People move on , its life . It doesn’t mean you never mattered.

Smh.well u can’t beg ppl to be apart of ur life. They have to be willing to be apart of my life… Effort is a must from both side

… But please look at the bright sight: at least now you know the truth and you can give yourself the chance to search and find the True Love that you deserve!!! So put yourself together and fight for the one who will really appreciate and Love you, don’t give up ???

Correct and if he wanted to talk to you or be with you, he would or else you are insignificant and unimportant to him.

No, when a man is going through mid-life crisis, he my act like the absence doesn’t bother him. He’s just trying to find that time he thinks he lost. Like when he wakes up one day and says “is this all there is. I’m getting old and haven’t accomplished the things I Set out to.” During this time of his life he’s just not himselfAnd the things that mattered, Are on the back burner for a while until he gets his shit together again.

Ain’t that the truth I recently found that out. As soon as I started working things changed then he stopped asking me over to see him Then in the past three weeks he stopped responding to any of my texts, are sending me my good morning text saying good morning gorgeous or good morning beautiful did you sleep. He kept saying he was busy doing things but I didn’t believe him before he had been busy and found time to text me throughout the day. Then all of a sudden it changed without warning wondering what happened what changed to… Read more »

Well if the person is absent, it is best that you move on. A person doesn’t have time for hide and seek and peek a boo ass games. If they want you, they wouldn’t hold out in you. Period

Self respect! Never lose it! People treat you the way you let them! Walk away! Who needs that! Life is too short! Don’t let others steal your joy! They will tell you how sorry they are, but actions speak louder than words!

All I could say here is that I love her and she’s not loving me back, but am still here waiting for her and will continue until she finds her way back to me some how. If you give up on love, love will give up on you. If you truly love someone love them for there past,present, good and bad. I believe that every thing has a passage and love is the hardest to find and keep. So keep love alive

A 100% true my ex just blocked me on here and phone because a situation she caused. One minute loving next never loved me and relationship was a burden yea ok what’s the next excuse. I know this list is a 100% true she hasn’t even bothered texting me

I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Just because you don’t need someone now doesn’t mean you never needed them before. Take any of my exes, and I’m totally fine without him in my life–but at one point, he was my world.

This is dead on. My absence hasn’t mattered. He does what ever he wants without a second thought about unless it’s to pick a fight

Silently move on is a good way…… And leave him for others girls….. Bcoz self respect is more than everything…..