How about the people that go out of their way to make the relationship work and in the end they are disrespected by the very person they knew was different from the rest?? Yea. Quite ironic isn’t it?? The real side of the person your dating always comes out. After the last two relationships I’ve had I’ve decided the single life is for me. I’m in no hurry at all to jump into another relationship to be disappointed yet again.

Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.

..and let the ego on the side..and see what you have in your hands today that could build a greater tomorrow…

When has it been easy?I have had many obstacles to show you how much I cared and loved you.I have seen my competition have the best times with you at your expense with your support.So I must love you more since I only got sweet words while the competition got your time and support and your presence at your expense.XX

True, but sometimes it only goes one way with selfish people.

amen i cant stand it when ppl ssy they re ride or die but yet giv up fast why give up for because its hard yes its hard but when u really love somebody not lust u stay in it period

Any other way isn’t loving or caring; it’s convenience. Too many are willing to settle for just convenience.

That’s right. So when there’s an issue and you might find yourself having to tell the truth that MIGHT hurt the other person… you swallow your pride and you don’t make excuses saying “you don’t want to hurt the other person”. You tell them the truth regardless.

Even at the bad times i kept fighting just for him hmm…but God made his choice on how we shud win on our battles beyond the distance right now

I have stayed throw cheating,lying,and stuff ill never know. I hope and tried to get her to c how much I loved her. Didn’t work. Not a waste of time but a waste of time. U know.

Ofcoz u must but do use know how difficult it is,some cases are very very worst comparing to others,its neva easy,but sometimes worthed at the end#life sometimes such especially if u gave your everything

That’s right, so where did it go so wrong? You don’t take yourself then make yourself like the person your with and call it MY SELF. But if you have fallen out of love then let them go, and you don’t call the bull shit bull shit…….Momma has been the bull shit done the bull shit and poured the bull shit.

Law of attraction is fucked up or we who fucked it up by using it wrong! You see this amazing girl attached to some ” normal ” guy who doesn’t know her value, and treat her in a lower level than she deserves .. You see this caring guy attached to this girl who just care about her self more .. Something wrong is going on .. ALOT of people ends up with a wrong partners .. So rare if you find perfect match, it doesn’t necessary to both be perfect cuz no body is, but its important to match… Read more »

True but what if it’s never easy? But you love them to much to walk away and know you help them be a better person? I’m afraid that I’m gonna invest so much time and then realize I’m just a crutch instead of a partner.

Some people can’t understand this. Being in love only seems to apply when everything is going great, extra money, nothing bad or unfavorable has happened. It seems, to me, that unless life is going perfectly, I don’t belong where I am because of the way I’m treated. I feel awful every day because I’m not as productive as I could be. I feel bad about the errors I’ve made and will make. I’m treated like garbage because I’m in such a slump. Instead of trying to fix the problem together, I’ve become the target of anger and quite honestly regret… Read more »

That’s exactly right. Too many walk away when the agenda doesn’t suit their needs. It’s NOT about ME. It’s about US. Or LOVE was NEVER part of the equation…

Amen! Every relationship has its ups and downs. When it’s meant to be, no one can step in during the downs and think they can change things…

Sadly so many pick the wrong person. It’s like real love and commitment boring for some. Plus so many are perfect. When everything is perfect but once you hit a bump. Off they go. They aren’t happy with themselves so looking to fill the void

The true problem is ppl don’t want to put in the time and effort plus expect it all for themselves at the same time. It’s not really about it being easy cuz no relationship will ever be easy, ppl always see the bad more than they will ever notice the good since its easier to see all the bad and remember it.

And if you really don’t love them anymore, tell them! Don’t let the years go by and live a lie. What does that say about you ?…

So true. ..I love all the responses here….very well said and to the point. ..It really takes two to be…and remain in a relationship equally. …

As u r couple ..u should have ability to deal with ur partner advantages and also disadvantages ….and able to overcome mistakes …

A lot of our problem lies with the fact that we don’t know when and if to let go. Some jump off too early, others stay longer than they should have. And i feel that’s never going to end.

correct.! you’ll support eachother everysttep of the way.give and take.especially wen the person you love falls down you should lift him her up.because relationship work two hands that hold eachothers heart to make the relationship work.and every relationship had a storm it take two hands to make through the storm and see the sun shine again.