My girlfriend was In a car accident Xmas eve was with her that day and the next go to find out new years she was with that other guy l did so much for her then l look in her phone after we went out dancing we got drunk and saw she was with that guy called him he told me everything knife in my back hate people who lie l just need to stop talking to her and go on with my life getting drunk now I’m better than that I’m not trash

Bt why not choosing u?

Wish I learned to respect myself enough to leave when there were enough doubts.

Exactly I don’t play second fiddle to nobody know your worth an own it!!!!☺?

Seriously! I don’t understand why or how that concept is not easy to understsnd

Yes, I am not a second thought, an option or a sidebar. Choose me or lose me.

Your better then being someones second choice.

Have to let go..I was in a relationship recently that I was always an option..

Straight up. Haha. I play second fiddle to none

Exactly..I don’t want to be anyone’s last choice…or second choice…just the only.

never put ur sellf in comarison suituation..u will drag ur self to lower ur standerdes and lower ur needs .

Right?!? I hate when people do this shit. It’s either only me or not me at all. But yet, it seems to happen anyhow.

What if it’s between his girlfriend and a chick he goes on and on about how he used to love and he mentioned her almost daily and she screwed him over bad they haven’t talked in a year and he just made a Facebook and his girlfriend ask that he not seek her or and add her because it will hurt her because of how much he talks about her? And he adds her anyways… Is this disloyal? Would the girlfriend be wrong to tell him to choose and if he doesn’t she leaves?

I will be only choice or none at all, your loss….cause anyone to mess with two or more obviously a loser all across the board.

some men and women keep them just to satisfy their sexual urge

Yes because you must be sure in you that you have enough high level not to let him do a choice … never let your position level down because of someone ..

Never choose someone who needs to think twice about choosing you. No one should ever feel like an option.

As if people are psychic and can have all the info they need to make an informed decision as soon as you want them to. Get over yourself, get out of denial to protect your precious feelings, and understand reality. You’re not better than the other person by so much of a margin that it’s a slam dunk comparison.

Johnny Depp
“if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.”

Totally agree depends on the situation..but in a situation where it between a psycho booty call turned live in snatch on demand and the woman you supposedly love…then damn rights you better choose the woman you love over keeping that rank old psycho around. Hesitate in that situation I would bounce in a heartbeat! I am not a side chick nor will I ever be made to feel like one.

You choose to love me then that is where your focus will remain. End. Of. Story.

I have to disagree if you let someone go that easily then you don’t deserve them ive been through similar situations and always came up on top ?

I have personally ended it with a few because as they said, I’m not sure who I want to be with. I just told them, then it’s not me.

If is between dating 2 people yes I agree. However if a bf or gf is demanding you choose them over keeping longtime friends or family in your life.. Then.. That is room to hesitate. Indeed if you don’t I’d question that. Dating isn’t marriage. And even in marriage which includes “forsake alll others”. Giving up family and friends is still often unhealthy.