Especially when there are friends and family that would be there in a minute. We tend to focus on those that push us away.

Eventually you’ll stop caring so much.

Seems to be that way. But new year, new me right?

Sad but true.. However, I’m done in 2016.

I have been guilty! Very very very guilty of loving too hard and too many of the wrong people. Things have definitely changed.

When you get hurt repeatedly by the same person, you’ll reach your limit eventually and walk away!

I’m learning, but it destroys my heart everyday.

It’s the worst! I love and care too much and my heart is too good! And it destroys me over and over again and I wish I could change how my heart is

I don’t care for anyone other than my family. I don’t know how that feels. What is a care? You can die today and I will not cry.

Yes…I still care about the family of my deceased husband and I know they don’t care about me. I had 4 stepdaughters, 8 stepgrandchildren and 4 greatgrands. All except one grandchild and his family dumped me upon my husband’s death…go figure!

I did too. but after that i realize then i dont need to waste my time to those people doesnt deserving.

Yikes this is the coldest truth ever…when does one draw the line to stop? I know I have 🙂 it’s good to worry about you

I did that. And then I learned. And now I don’t care about him. And I’m a lot happier. It took awhile but letting go was the best choice

Well … i would say, … d type of person falls on this … is a kind, very generous one , he or she doesnt care what the other person gives … whats is important is the thing he or she gives to other .

All the time….I’m always the friend everyone thinks of after the fact, or the friend they call when everyone else is busy….I’ve done a lot of cleaning lately.. now to find new friends that give as much as they get.

Isn’t that the beauty of unconditional lov
Lov for me is limitlessness n always will be no matter who stays and who decides to leave ?

That’s good, cause caring doesn’t have a criteria of reciprocation, at least it shouldn’t. That expectation and it subsequent change of heart is what creates the cold society in which we live in the first place.

Really sad but so true. I kinda feel like people tend to care for those people who don’t even care about themselves nowadays. So they forget to care about and love themselves more. At the end, they finally realize that those people are “worthless” after being hurt by those people . Unfortunately, I need to work on that too. Stop caring too much cuz sometimes it’s just not worth it. Sad…

Don’t set your expectations so high and expect people to be like you once you do that your light will shine because that is who you are a kind and loveable perspn

I can honestly say I wish everyone a happy New year even though they might phone or text me this is who I am my light will keep shining and no one will burn it out….

What hurts me the most is I wasn’t even looking for love, just stumbled upon it. So I feel even worst.?

I used too. I’ve even begun to dismiss family that doesn’t reciprocate my relationship efforts. I refused to allow my love tank to ever again be on “E” b/c the ppl I love won’t contribute.

I think the really kicker is when the people who say they care and are there for you no matter what are the first ones to be verbally abusive towards a choice you had to make in life to better your own path for once. It also hurts when the people who you thought loved you…they see you having a hard time and they just ignore you, sticking their heads in the sand

Yeah. That stop this year. I would cross an ocean for them they wouldn’t jump a puddle for me. Friendship is a two way street but I’m the only one driving. Friendship take effort on both sides