If I miss you, I’ll call
If I want you, I’ll say it
If I care, I’ll show it
And if not, then you aren’t worth my time.
I feel like this is more honest

So true..if your worth it they’ll show you in the littlest ways that mean so much.

This is a lesson hard learned for me

If people love you they will take time for you 🙂

Very true..why waste time on someone who doesn’t put the effort!!

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He NEVER Put Any EFFORT into our friendship so why should HE Put and effort into our Secret Love????

Just reminding myself to not be in a bad mood just scribbling and making happy faces, u would as many times as I just reminded myself I would reemebr to not be in a bad mood, or a sad mood. ??

If someone has tried to tell you what they feel from there Heart? Do you give them a second chance or let them hurt knowing they do care.

Learning this lesson all over again during the holidays.

Sure isn’t!!! That’s why it shouldn’t be a problem for me to leave. Not sure why everyone is making a big deal about it!!! ;0)

Oh yeah and never believe someone is too busy. They will find time if they want to talk to you, see you or be part of your life

But you have to let him know YOU are interested. His time is valuable, too. Men get tired of chasing the disinterested.

Put effort into someone who gives a damn about you, not someone who uses you

He wont miss me, wont call me, never cared about me while pregnant with our child and after, and not worth his time anymore :'(

You see how everybody makes this so confusing. Trust in the Lord! If God wants him or her back in your plan and it is part of his plan then it will happen

If you don’t put effort, don’t expect others.

Just think, if “they” think the same way then.

You are breaking relation Admin

Not if they are low in self confidence or think you don’t like them. It’s better to take the initiative. Gently test the water/relationship. For want of trying too much has been lost.

Yep! I know from experience. However, pulled up my big girl panties and it is now in the past. My future is brighter than I could have ever imagined. Blessed and grateful!

sometimes ego can get in the way….and it ends up with both parties hoping that the other will make the move first

Not always true. I have people I miss daily or still care about and I’ve done nothing at all to reach out

There’s no forever at all. Happy New Year. God bless to those who are inlove, more blessings to those who are searching of love.

Phone calls are a two way thing not one after all each person has one. If one has missed phone calls or not picked it up it could be sending out a mixed signal so it would be polite to make sure you call them instead. If one has already done the calling then it is certainly time for it to be the vice versa. phone are a lot like relationships it requires effort on the giving and receiving end.

When someone really cares about you, that person will make an effort to be with you. No excuses. And if they don’t care, that really shows too. It’s up to you, if you seek to be loved more, less, or not at all.

Does not always apply. if a relationship that has ended: person who broke it off has the say…