this happened to me i was loyal and he lied to me saying he never loved me for the 6 years we were together he had 2 girls that i took in as my own and i have 2 of my kids and together we have a 3 yr old boy and now im 4 months prego with his child. Only to find out he is in love with another.

Respect is all that is needed…. With respect comes no lies no cheating as well all because you respect the person your with!!!

“Respect” is all that is needed…. With respect comes no lies, no cheating as well all because you respect the person your with!!

Uhm…. why would one need to tell this to grown ups? Oh, yes, I forgot…. the ego grows with (and sometimes even outgrows) the body. :/

oooohhhh so true very simple but not everyone will do it , doesnt make sense such a simple thing is to just be honest mind boggling

Coz of I’m to honest I’m still single.
Must of people they like to lie and cheat on them. They will love and respect but if you’re not they will leave you ?

And never hide things… If you do or say something that you wouldn’t say in front of your significant other or wouldn’t want them to see then make a change or don’t say it at all… ?

Lying leads to breaking trust and cheating. Been there myself with someone who can’t stop seeking attention which lead to her cheating on more than I was occasion. Now an ex and cheating on her new man already. She’ll fall down to earth and then no one will want her. Watch out Karma is on its way!

More like ‘if you want along term relationship, accept the truth! Ya’ll ladies tend to disappear like a flash when a man speaks the truth, especially about himself!

We lie sometimes, but when one finds true love there is no need to lie, because everything is love and we want the best for that person, without hurting it.

If it were only true. You can be the most honest, loyal, inspiring & loving person, but that doesn’t mean your partner will be.

Oh, bullshit. Try having one single non-romantic relationship where you don’t lie. People *hate* being told the truth. So the trick is lie, but don’t get caught. Thankfully, if you keep the lie to the right areas, people don’t try to find out, so you’re golden.

be honest and trust your partner and live happy

If you want a long term relationship, don’t lie, don’t cheat, be true to your words and make sure to have mutual respect for each other.

I think there are 4 pillars to a long-tem, committed relationship. They are: trust, passion, commitment, and respect.

Lying is what begins lack of trust therefore there is no relationship

I dont want a long term relationship, I want a LIFE TIME RELATIONSHIP

Of course you should never lie. But there is more to keeping a relationship than just that. Lying usually starts the downward spiral though..

Yeah i did but..i have much more rules than any couple do i’m hurt like fuck but i still love even i cry every night i am fucking done but I don’t want her to be with other guy or smile to another guy so all worth for keep this painful into my heart

What if u lied but didn’t cheat on ur partner?? Does the relationship have a good chance on surveying?

Sooo…if we cheat on our significant other and was honest about it, would that still fall in the “Long Term Relationship” rule. Being in an open relationship doesn’t count. It does say “Never Lie” ?

A lasting relationship must observe this ,honesty because if there is honesty,comes trust,then love then comes peaceful and lasting relationship,

I remembered my ex told me..just trust me!! Then,how can I trust him when he lied to me. ? Then he was upset for when I confronted him.Then he blocked me without solving his mess.Thats the end of our love story. We didn’t talk in personal to our break up because we are in long distance relationship .He just blocked without listening my side ?.

When you catch them lying, it puts doubt’s in your head and when they cheat can’t trust them anymore..especially married couples RESPECT,loyalty,honesty and love is all that is needed..why get married if they gonna be sneaky and hide things from each other and be disloyal. If you truly in love and want a long term relationship then never lie and cheat…

There is no worse lie than hearing someone say “I love you” when they don’t mean it.