Thinking like this will get you dead! DO NOT EVER become dependant on someone else! If you put your trust and faith in them they will change their feelings, or miss their ex, or find greener grass and it will destroy you! People change and you have zero control of them. Find happiness in yourself and your kids.

Some people have no clue the meaning of this

Nice to have a BEST FRIEND like this..male or female!!

It is why heartbreak hurt so much

The word can’t in this statement is stupid. You have already given up your self worth to someone who has the power to hurt you worse than anyone will if this how you really think.

But we did lose each other after all….

‘I can’t lose You’ is for people whom have issues with Attachment, their lives only surround the person he or she loved so much. If that love died, so is his or her life too and how sad it is. Detachment is freedom granted for happiness, when u are able to detach from anyone, u are free in your soul and not prisoner of your own soul.

So true but life does go on so hold your head up and know it does get better. I hope and pray….lol

E. E. Cummings
(1894 – 1962)
it may not always be so; and i say
that if your lips,which i have loved,should touch
another’s,and your dear strong fingers clutch
his heart,as mine in time not far away;
if on another’s face your sweet hair lay
in such silence as i know,or such
great writhing words as,uttering overmuch,
stand helplessly before the spirit at bay;

if this should be,i say if this should be—
you of my heart,send me a little word;
that i may go unto him,and take his hands,
saying,Accept all happiness from me.
Then shall i turn my face,and hear one bird
sing terribly afar in the lost lands

That’s too much and being too damn dependent on one person.
Learn to be everything to yourself as the quote clearly makes light of you weren’t everything to them if they’re ready to walk out!

People who want to keep their ex’s around as friends are not your soulmate, no matter how much you want them to be and fool yourself.

ᵀʰᶦˢ ᶦˢ ˢᵒ ˢᵐᵃᶫᶫ ᵗᵒ ʳᵉᵃᵈ ᵉᵛᵉᶰ ᶠᵒʳ ʸᵒᵘ ᵇʳᵒ⋅ ᴰᵒᶰᵗ ᵗʳʸ ᵗᵒ ᶜᵒᶰᵗᶦᶰᵘᵉ ʳᵉᵃᵈᶦᶰᵍ ᵗʰᶦˢ ᵇᵉᶜᵃᵘˢᵉ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵉʸᵉˢ ʷᶦᶫᶫ ˢᵗᵃʳᵗ ᵗᵒ ʰᵘʳᵗ ˢᵒᵒᶰ ᶦᶠ ʸᵒᵘ ᵈᵒᶰᵗ ˢᵗᵒᵖ⋅ ᵂʰʸ ᵈᵒᶰᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ˢᵗᵒᵖ﹖⋅⋅⋅⋅ᵍᵒ ᵃʷᵃʸ ᵇʳᵒ ᵃᶰᵈ ʳᵉᵃᵈ ᵗʰᵉ ᶰᵉˣᵗ ᶜᵒᵐᵐᵉᶰᵗ⋅ ˢᵗᵒᵖ ʳᵉᵃᵈᶦᶰᵍ ᵃᶫʳᵉᵃᵈʸ﹗ ᴵ ˢᵉᵉ ᵗʰᵃᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ᵈᵒᶰᵗ ʷᵃᶰᶰᵃ ᵍᶦᵛᵉ ᵘᵖ ʳᵉᵃᵈᶦᶰᵍ﹖⋅⋅⋅ʷᵉᶫᶫ ᵒᵏ, ʸᵒᵘ ʷᵒᶰ ᵗʰᶦˢ ᵗᶦᵐᵉ, ᵇᵘᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ˢʰᵒᵘᶫᵈ ᵍᶦᵛᵉ ᵐᵉ ᵃ ᶫᶦᵏᵉ ᶠᵒʳ ʷᵃˢᵗᶦᶰᵍ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵗᶦᵐᵉ ᵃᶰᵈ ˢᵗʳᵉˢˢᶦᶰᵍ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵉʸᵉˢ ᵗʰᵒ

Don’t believe in this rule of relationship.

These comments are so sad. It’s a beautiful thing when you have this kind of love for another person. You know life can go on without them even though it will be very hard to move on. It’s the sentiment of the message you have to understand. Not just the literal translation.

I did lose her, and it destroyed me. I have absolutely no doubt at all, that she was laughing at that either. She meant everything to me, and she just wanted to play games, kill the person I was, leave me to be nothing but a shell of that person.

This is actually sad. You should be enough no one else should feel that void. You’ll be miserable if u put that much into one person. Just my personal experience.

If you loose them to death that’s something that can’t be control, but if you lost them to someone else because it was there choice than they never loved or cared for you. It’s called lust , time to move on. Go to a gym look better than you used too and you start to feel better when you see results.

This is not meant for people that have terrible relationships or its one sided (at least that’s not how I interpret it). My husband and I see it like it would be terrible if something happened to either one of us because we love each other so much and it would just be like losing so much without the other. It’s pure love and true connection not Abuse or someone giving all and the other using. You should feel that way about your spouse.

I mean, honestly! There is nothing wrong with your spouse being your “everything”! I would be devastated and completely lost without him!! Obviously my life would go on.. But I would be heartbroken. I have children, and they are also my “everything”!! My husband and our children are my world! That’s what’s wrong with the world today; people don’t know how to LOVE anymore!!

Some make the mistake of making someone their everything. ..