If you have 2 people hurting & only had bad experiences who takes the 1st step away from what they feel is there safe zone!

And the best part is….nobody really cares! People only care when your happy but other than that they just avoid you if your broken. True story.

Always remember that you can make the difference in someone’s life!

This is why you always be kind, be the positive force people need.

Im pretty good at feeling broken people…sometimes it’s caused by their own demise…

Yeah I know because I been 26 yrs old long time ago 😉

true..but usually I feel it….

That is so true,that’s why being kind to someone can really make someone else’s day.Love one another…

I think of this every time I leave work. So true.

right..but it doesnt mean about partners only but also pertaining in all kinds of relationships, friends, officemates, mother father, sister, brother and etc..

Thats because some people
refuse to listen to other people’s feelings. And some other people hide their pain very good

This is so so true. Too many out there only think of themselves. I have certainly found out who my true friends are and who are the ones who pretend .

Sometimes it just takes a kind word to a stranger. Exmp…How are you today? Hello, how’s your day going. Make it a rule to at least inquire about one person and be prepared to listen. That may be the only conversation they have that day or the last one.

I think about that when someone is mean at a store and think maybe they are having a really bad time in life right now. Like a a cold cashier at the food store. I stopped her and said how are you doing. Are you ok? And she looked me in the eye like how did you know and I smiled and made a joke and she laughed. And I said I thought you could use a smile. Don’t treat others how they treat you treat them better. It shows character

People turn you away if you try to talk about what has broken you no one wants to face the thought of human frailty in a cruel world. People want there perfect bubbles. Just because someone has hit hard times n needs to get it out doesn’t mean you should turn your back we are all human and we all break at some point. Get of the cell n look into someone’s eyes

Exactly! Been there,yet am happy now as 2016 will brighten my whole life and no scare to learn something new ever! … I just smiles and walk away from those toxic and annoyance ever. No Fear… Life so short and just accept as what it is as Faith .

Definitely true indeed and it’s so painful when they don’t even want to know you and they might be using you I’ve been there a lot of times all I’m doing now is w waiting for a miracle and also the right moment

I saw a sad post on Facebook back in 2010. I messaged him to see how he was(we were never really friends in high school, just acquaintances) we talked for a bit. Fast forward to today, he messaged me congratulating me on graduating college and told me I saved his life and that it meant a lot what I said to him. He then told me he was going to be graduating college next semester and it was all because I cared enough to say something.

Absolutely. A smile can hide a thousand tears.

Some of us are intuitive enough to figure out that someone else is probably hurting, but they have to learn to reach out past their hurt to others who can possibly help. You can’t force someone to share.

To , much focus on who’s broken and who’s not we all have a little baggage, if you want to be happy my advice is to lighten up and stop analysing everyone . A great base to a relationship starts with friendship, and that starts with honesty. Build from that and for God sake start laughing.

True and the sad thing is that when ones senses it and tries to offer encouragement or help etc, you get shut down. I’m amazed at them as if no one else has suffered their type of pain, I always said been there done that, I have lived through tough times and at 70 years old I do think that I have some wisdom and a lot of trial and errors to be able to understand their problems.

This is why it is imperative to be a keen observer. If observation does not come naturally, then find ways to hone the skill. quiet meditation is a starting place. Then get to work asking the penetrating questions, notably “why?”. A kind, caring, thoughtful word to the person next to you or sitting behind you can possibly change the world.

Very very true! Observing , someone mentioned? Not when a person wears a ‘game face’ well. We just never no what the person standing next to us is going through….. Not if they have their ‘game face ‘ on.

Yes many ave become skilled in hiding hurt. That may or may not be a good thing if we internalize feelings. Many of us carry painful baggage that is item made unaware to the perpeprator. Always remember that the past is not the future and hurt does slowly diminish with time as long as we choose to eradicate it from oursekves