How about don’t marry a man unless he treats you the way he would want someone to treat his daughter?

I hope my boys grow up to have the morals and loyalty my husband has! Any girl would be lucky to have that!

I don’t like the way I look like my dad seriously he is good looking but I would wanted to look different then him.

Shouldn’t it be the other way around??? “Don’t have a child by a man unless you can be proud to call him your husband”

I dont know ANY MAN that posesses that level of greatness… So ill never reMARRY …. (He wasnt either… hence me being divorced)

This connotes FIGURE OF SPEECH -(phrase being use in some other ways but not its literal meaning ) this depicts more of a guy and it so happened he will be the life time partner then but unfortunately with lots if vices,attitude problem,explosives temper,and foremost womaniser.Later on with ur life ,do not be surprised if the attitude of ur daughter/son appear to be somewhat like the father bcoz genes + environment plays a very determining factor in a human race.Not unless with the great determination of the offspring to turn it to 360 degrees.?.The above statement doesnt attribute much on… Read more »

Wow! So true! Wish I would have seen this before I married the fool. Well, not married anymore and no children became of it. Thankfully!!!

I wish …..I could still have children….children are a blessing & they are their own person….never do they grow up exactly like mother or father…each life has a purpose in life…a different destiny…a meaning!! Life is a gift
…appreciate it

What about not having a kid with him unless he married her?

I get it but why the hell do we have to reproduce? Just cause you are married doesn’t mean you have to have children. My husband and I are perfectly happy with our furrbabies.

I have 2 sons with a man that I hope and pray they never grow up to be. That is why I am raising them alone. Showing them the respect and love is only given when you have it for yourself first!

What a stupid saying. No kid is ever exactly like father/mother. They are in the basis a bit like them but have their own personality and way. and if you make such a statement then also add “Don’t marry a woman unless you would be proud to have a daughter exactly like her” … in general I like this page but this was one of the most stupid things you guys ever published imho.

Not w him anymore, but i am so proud of him bein the father of our son… Our son is the exact same thing as him, n i like that, so carin, a lil ‘tosco’ juz like him, but, i couldnt have asked for a better father. Things dont always work in a relationship as a couple, but havin sum understandin in coparentin our so its wat matters, as long our son is happy i am happy, n so is he.

All children are different. Just because they have the same DNA as their mother and father doesn’t mean they will be like them personality-wise. Look at siblings. Same DNA yet each is completely different. Your statement is irrelevant, but I think people should be in it for the long haul if a child is brought into the picture. Sadly that’s just not the majority these days as both sides mother or father might be deadbeat parents. And no one can force someone to change his or her behavior.

I always thought it was if a man loves and respects his mother he will choose a wife that’s like his mother and the same with a woman choosing a husband that’s like her father. I could be wrong though.

My son is like his grandfather! He’s easy and he likes mostly everyone. He sees the good in people! Love him!

That is a stupid saying. You marry a man or woman to have a companion for life. Kids pop out any time.

if its like that then woman who wants like that should be capable to see through the mans eyes that how much pain and struggle he has gone through…..then only she deserves such a man!!!!

Just cuz ur husband might of not turned out great or u didn’t marry the right person for that matter that doesn’t mean ur child is gonna end up the same way it all depends on u ur parenting and how u decide to raise them smdh #truestory

i guess it means a man should be family oriented and a perfect lover i.e. the combination of both. values both and puts every one on their place because no one wants a child but in this case a son who does’t respect or obey their parents..

I did marry a man who ended up being a total loser in every way possible. Our son might look like him, but his personality and general character – heart/morals/ethics are nothing like his father. And he’s smarter too! Hehe. Praise the Lord. ‼️?