That’s exactly how I feel, I am an amazing person, with a lot to offer. When I decide to commit myself to someone, I do it wholeheartedly, and expect the same, or why even bother?

This is the worst feeling!! I remember feeling this way and it nearly broke me. You can’t make someone appreciate you, but you can teach them as much you can by removing yourself!! The day I did was one of the best days of my life.

Like if you have that feelings before… I’m gonna like my own comment cause I do

I don’t want someone to crave me, that just sounds unhealthy. To feel wanted as much as I want him would be nice.

The problem there is focusing on feeling, if you run around basing everything on feeeeeeelings then you will always be alone. I dont feel like going to work do I go or not? I take my funky ass to work if I wanna get paid. This is a totaly selfish quote The moment I start…talk about an all about you relationship… SMH. Better just stay single and date why waste time investing if your a runner.

Sounds a little egotistical to me. You do things for someone because you want to, not because you expect something in return.

I miss you so much it hurts
But imma try not to stalk you
Who am I kidding
I will always crave your company
Can’t wait till Thursday

This is a good one, definitely been there many times. You definitely get tired of ‘craving’ someone who doesn’t crave you or your presence.

sometimes it’s fine to be alone, but sometimes it’s so lonely that i hope i could find at least a stranger to take it all out, my sensible soul, weak self, sorrow and all. yup, just have to suck it up and move on though *smile*~

as much as you wish for you to be close with them again, if they make you feel unwanted, your within the circle and they only talk and share with each other, what’s the point of staying if your not a part of the conversation. And then they wonder why you keep walking out.

Everyone who feels this way should watch fireproof. Not for the sake of the Christianity but for the lessons learned by kirk camerons character in the movie.

Been with someone for 5 months who stopped making feel wanted and appreciated. Not the first time I’ve been through this but definitely getting on my nerves

Dedicated to girls. Someday, you’ll meet the genuine love of your life. he’ll make you realize that love was worth more than the risk of losing. He will take care of you the best way he can. He’ll not just say sorry after hurting u, he’ll prove to you that he’s sincere and that he’ll never do it again. He’ll not just give you butterflies, he’ll make you breathless because he’ll hug you so tight. No matter how many times you give him reasons to walk away, he’ll stand his ground and give you reasons why he has to stay.… Read more »

This is so true 🙁 all i ask is a thank you and not be demanded to do things because he’s too lazy to do it himself. All it does to me is make me feel like I’m being used and not apart of a relationship

Yup. Life is too short to wait around to see if someone cares.
Always now your worth and know what you can bring to any relationship. And if it’s not good enough for them then do not waste your love, time or energy…. Save all of that for someone that is going to appreciate you for everything you are.

Love still exist Somewhere out there.

While I don’t want anyone to crave me… and people’s lives do get busy… feeling under appreciated and noticing someone is caught up in their own affairs are too different things. And the crave part? Doesn’t have to be every day or even every other month but I live across Canada from my best friends and every few months (I’ve been gone years) they still show they miss me and love me. Even if they do not say it but they usually do. Maybe I’m just spoiled with good friends but I get the difference.

How in the fuck does ‘Relationship Rules’ make posts that are the parallel of words to my everyday life?
It’s funny neither one of us can get our relation-shit together. ?

Years ago I used to say…in fact it was one of my Rules of Life: I don’t stay where I’m not wanted. (In all honesty, Not all my rules are based on healthy connection, but is armor and defense tools to save my heart from utter disaster that I learned early on just exists in life.) But sometimes people suck at communication and connection. And adult life does get busy in many ways. Other people you care about have their world turned on end, and they just have no control of the chaos thrown at them nor the courage to… Read more »

When I stop getting upset and start accepting things and start getting used to something.. That’s when I know it’s about time to leave.. You can only try so hard for so long without somethings change before you can’t do it anymore and it’s time to letting and move on

Its not meant to be selfish. When you are soulmates, nothing can get them off your mind. Life has no value without that one person?

No one can give you 100% of their love and affection, yes its nice to be loved, and missed, but sometimes there are other things going on in life that don’t center around you. So have your standards on how much you want to be loved, but don’t throw a good thing away just because your special someone is not giving you enough attention.

These all sound like the X I had. He was never satisfied because he had unrealistic expectations. He also felt that no one respected him and his arrogant attitude of entitlement. Everyone was wrong but him. He was addicted to porn. He was an asshole. He was a perverted fat pig. There’s more. Need I go on.

I don’t want anyone to crave me. Quiet, abiding love is so much finer. You kids enjoy your Koolaid. After 27 years of marriage, I can tell you this fine wine is much better than anything you can hope for. I hope you get there. The real secret is to love the other person in a way that makes them feel special, not to demand a certain kind of love from them. Of course, walk away from anyone who mistreats you but, beyond that, if you don’t love the other person enough to want what’s best for them and to… Read more »

That’s why my ex husband cheated 3 times and now is married a forth time… Awww poor thing , always feels under appreciated lmfao… No it just comes down to never satisfied !! Sex primarily