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I’ve had exes like this and I was dumb enough to try to make things work and keep them. But I wasn’t one to go without telling them how I felt. If I didn’t like something I would tell them, and they never changed their actions towards me so they never cared about me. They literally only wanted me around to be their property and comfort. Eventually I ended up completely removing them from my life and since then my life has been so much better. And yes if they do something to hurt you and they don’t stop after… Read more »
Truth
Man did I ever live that!!!!!!! Get out now, they’ll lie etc, etc,…. And trust me, they won’t change just get better at convincing you to stay and lying etc, etc….
Truth, and feels like my life right now
I agree and sometimes we are just to blind!!!
With your other post about the little stuff that matters, sometimes when you forget the little stuff that’s hurting the other person too. And not all of us realise that because not all of us think the little things matter.
Unfortunately that’s true…. Or it is not a healthy type of love. When it happens repeatedly ‘I’m sorry’ doesn’t count either. And when it’s always because of something you did or said, that’s the worst. There is no justification for continually hurting someone you supposedly love!! Oh dear! Got caught in a soapbox rant!!
Kinda going through this right now taring me apart
I don’t think this was the case for me, but it sure felt like it. So I had the courage and walked away. Will not allow myself to continually be hurt
🙁 sad but true. But some people just don’t realize their own actions or it becomes a habit.
Wow.. That just hit home !
And I’m dumb enough to keep hoping/waiting for him ?
I pray to God that is not what is happening to me…
Wow bet this shoe fits lots of peeps . Oh hope this doesnt make some 1 to ashamed or embarrased
That’s called being in someone back pocket. If it doesn’t work out with the person they are after they know they can always go back to you… it’s happened to me before and it hurts.
What you allow will continue.
There comes a point in your life when you must say, enough. Don’t let others take advantage of you and treat you poorly. The first time you find out they’ve been lying to you.. walk away and don’t look back. My problem was being too nice.. letting others treat me w/ disrespect.. until I said, no more. I’m not perfect, but I am honest and I don’t set out to hurt others.. some people just enjoy being cruel.. telling lies because somewhere along the line.. someone hurt them and told them lies.
To just stop liking someone you developed strong feelings for is easier said than done! Especially when they took the time to build up those feelings and then decided to drop you just because they felt like it. A broken heart, even a false hope, takes time to get over.
I cannot understand why these people dont just let you go? If they don’t care, why can’t they let go?
I did that for almost 2 years. My ex treated me like absolute crap and I kept hoping he would change. It seemed the more I loved him the worse he treated me. I finally had enough and called it quits last year. I have now been dating someone new for the last few months and it is the complete opposite. He is amazing and treats me with respect. It is very hard but if someone is treating you badly, leave them. They will never change and it will only get worse as time goes on.
Best piece of advice. Ever. Behavior is a choice. Never let anyone try to fool you with “That’s just who I am and if you really loved me you’d accept that.” However, on the flip side, take personal responsibility for caring about yourself more and don’t blame them for not changing. You can’t force someone to care. Just accept that they don’t and find someone who does. #lessonslearnedthehardway
Maybe sometimes they don’t understand how much they are hurting you by some of their actions. Maybe they didn’t get it, until you explain in a way they understand. Maybe you kept giving chances because you loved them so much you didn’t want to be without them. Maybe this is the last time you’re willing to try to forgive, and move forward. Maybe if it happens again, you will finally be ready to walk away forever and never look back.