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Ramsha A Khan
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Ramsha A Khan

Sometimes relax is way of guy saying “dont worry abt it and dnt stress urself” i dnt agree on tht

Charlie Diamond
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Charlie Diamond

lol this is stupid

Wendi Miller Chapman
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Wendi Miller Chapman

LOL – I wish I saw this 19 years ago….

Ryan Attlee
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Ryan Attlee

I’m sorry, but this is probably the only post I haven’t agreed with from you.

Kat Gonzalez
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Kat Gonzalez

It depends . I think a mature person can identify and communicate that they feel very strongly but may be overreacting . If the dudes like just chill as in shut up I don’t wanna hear bout this as apposed to maybe take a moment to calm down for a bit because you’re yelling at me or something like that …. Yeah that could be total red flag it just depends on context . You are important & so are your feelings. However If you’re always freaking out though because you’re stressed and you know it, own up to it.… Read more »

Bibi Tejada
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Bibi Tejada

RED FLAG

Denise Acosta
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Denise Acosta

It really does pisses me off when he says that and he’s the one who does stupid shit to get me all stressed out

Gabriela Angelia Boone
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Gabriela Angelia Boone

True! What Muriah Baker said. You don’t tell people to relax when they are upset. You need to listen to them then communicate with them. That is how things work out. Telling them that shows that you don’t care, just making excuses to avoid the confrontations to have the conversation. People often are taught doing and saying wrong that makes things worse because they have not tried otherwise to make it better. Once they do it then they will realize how much it improves and makes themselves to feel better

Elizabeth A Erekson
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Elizabeth A Erekson

Chyeah right. I’m a major stress case. I get myself so worked up that if it wasn’t for my significant other reminding me to relax and take a step back sometimes I’d make myself and everyone around me crazy. Not everything needs be taken condescendingly…

Joana Vedder
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Joana Vedder

Yeah I’m gonna unfollow this advice is wrong! I say it to my bf all the time when he’s feeling stressed I say it with love!

Natalie Lam
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Natalie Lam

It really depends why you’re upset though… Some girls will freak out over nothing and need to be brought back down to Earth.

Carol Crafts Tvorak
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Carol Crafts Tvorak

Or if they use the you are over reacting line

Rhonda Warren
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Rhonda Warren

I feel what this is saying is a mate should listen to you and help you calm down. You have to go through your emotions and then relax. If someone is telling you to relax it is because they are uncomfortable with your feelings and aren’t in tune with you. When you vibe with your mate they take the trip with you in a sense and help guide you to becoming calm.

Kenny Terry
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Kenny Terry

Yea exactly continue to act irrational! 🙂 lol

Samuel Meagan Johnson
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Samuel Meagan Johnson

Sometimes I think this page should be called “Bad Relationship Advice.” This is pretty stupid. All situations aren’t the same. Sometimes I need someone to tell me to relax because I’m being irrational.

Terrible advice in my opinion

Brittany Danielle
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Brittany Danielle

Dated someone for 3.5 yrs who would say this anytime there was a problem instead of dealing with it. I left him so he can relax all he wants now
:p

Muriah Baker
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Muriah Baker

As a survivor of domestic violence, NEVER let someone make you feel like you can’t express your thoughts or feelings! It’s the beginning of a power struggle

Ashley Mcgrady
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Ashley Mcgrady

Or “chill” I hate that shit!

Caitlyn Stecker
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Caitlyn Stecker

Or he thinks you should calm down, get your mind together, and then deal with whatever it is. Nothing good ever comes from acting while upset.

Dan Froehlich
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Dan Froehlich

You all need to relax!

Tasha Chapman
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Tasha Chapman

I think it’s the one who can hold you and relax you
Sometimes all you need is a hug or a shoulder etc

Rhona Ferguson
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Rhona Ferguson

Yea,that crap urkes me….like im not supposed to have feelings or something!

Cheryl Ferrier
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Cheryl Ferrier

Ever notice, the one telling you to calm down is the one who ticked you off in the first place?

Myshell Rivera
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Myshell Rivera

If they say relax and mean it negatively then yeah this makes sense. If they say it to genuinely to calm you down then this makes no sense. Js

James Pagan
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James Pagan

Relax lmao