True but I think it depends… the Rule of thumb here is pretty simple ~ IF you Really LOVE the person, don’t push them away but keep them Close to you by giving them that unconditional Love, care and affections. Because a lot of relationships fail because of words left unspoken and tender loving care that wasn’t shown genuinely

This is horribly written!

Females have mood swings during their period and during pregnancy. It doesn’t mean they don’t love their partner though. The other 2 things can be accountable for this post.

You’ll never find a relationship if you have 3000+ rules to it

Not true. I have a medical condition which makes me have mood swings. Whomever wrote this obviously has not seen that there can be reasons behind things. I have bi-polar and will have moments of massive mania but my boyfriend still supports me. As I do with him. We love one another. Our mistakes make us human. You people who write these rules need to understand the human mind as well as the heart. Not every relationship is the same

Or that they stop caring. It’s easier to care less

Don’t agree with the last line. Every relationship goes into a funk at times. Sometimes that funk will last longer than others. And both sides will eventually be on both sides of that stick. Sometimes you are the support, sometimes you are the supported.

I don’t totality agree with this. Just because someone might be confused doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They might just be a little mixed up in the head and need time to sort out things.

Whether it means u don’t love that person or u don’t love yourself, it doesn’t make sense. I loved this quote up until the ‘but.’ Can the writer of this quote please explain? Thanks.

Some things in this post makes no sense. People have mood swings especially if your stressed out. It doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner.

This really is pathetic.
Must you be in a perfect mood all the time? Always speak sweetly? If that’s the case, then you might be the droid he is looking for.

I really disagree with this. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone goes through mood swings. Just because these things happen doesn’t mean “oh you can’t really love me!” We’re all human..

So, according to this, none of us love each other? Last I checked, I deal the mood swings as much as she does, along with the attitude, and mistakes. That’s called loving one another.

If someone really wanted you, they’d actually put some effort into trying to get your attention, and make sacrifices for you. They wouldn’t just tell you they wanted you; they’d show you in every little way possible that they want you. <3

Ignorant. The only part that makes sense for the last line is if you’re TRYING to take it from them. Shitty moods happen.. doesn’t mean people don’t love each other. Quit putting just whatever on these things and acting like its legit.

I’ll admit that I’m not the perfect girlfriend, and he’s very understanding and tolerant of how I am but that doesn’t mean I don’t love him. It makes me love him even more that no matter what I know he won’t give up on me, and I won’t give up on us.

If this isn’t a true statement, I’m not sure what is!

So fucking true….. This made me cry… i’m man enough to admit it…

Ummm if you have mood swings and make mistakes you don’t love the person you’re with? I guess every woman who had a regular menstrual cycle really doesn’t love her significant other.

this annoyed me. i have mood swings and have made mistakes, and so has my boyfriend. it doesn’t mean that we don’t love each other. it means that we’re only human and that everyone makes mistakes.

fucking stupid. that’s what love is. it isn’t all lovey dovey happy moments. sometimes you’re crabby at each other. sometimes you make fucking mistakes. sometimes you make the other person hurt. that’s fucking REAL love. love isn’t just about the good times. it’s a choice. it’s about standing by each other and forgiveness. who the fuck wrote this shit. a little kid?

Untrue. People make mistakes .. doesn’t mean that you don’t love them.

After reading a couple of the replies on this, I think what it means is toward the end. “If you hurt them enough to take it (the smiling) away from them.” I think that has to do with the fact that the person is hurting their partner so much that the partner has to force himself/herself to continue smiling and pretending it’s okay…when it really isn’t. It’s a sign of abuse, actually.

If someone says he’s an ass and later it turns out to be true. You can pretty much expect he wants you to deal with it. That’s not love. Everyone should admit their faults and work on improving. Some just aren’t willing to see any wrong in themselves