I believe it can be forgiven… however, continuing on with that person is the biggest risk. Yes you will definitely think about it every day and even bring it up. I do believe people make mistakes. Although those mistakes are definitely not justified. I think its something that can be fixed. Depending on where you are in your relationship and how much self confidence you have if you are actually let down a second time.

And it’s not just cheating with people…. I felt like I was cheated on when my ex-husband chose drugs and alcohol over me.

Cheating is not a mistake its a CHOICE!

Cheating is a choice!

Absolute worst thing you can do to a person you “love”.

It takes a great effort, but it is possible to forgive a cheater. Though, I do believe that it takes a very big heart to forgive someone that broke you.

Copy paste-Very true! Dont understand how anyone can tell someone they love them but at the same time go behind their back and cheat on them!?

It can be forgiven but not forgotten. That shit haunts you.

The heart doesn’t grow fonder during distance it merely shows how vulnerable and weak it was in he first place

So true..divorced my highschool sweet heart at 27 yrs old..had been together since we were 16 and two children …found out he was cheating last two years of marriage he had gotten another girl pregnant while we were married..gave me a std..thank god it was curable..and I left..never looked back..and met my now husband wen I was 30…I am now almost 37 and couldnt be happier…I could n no way forgive him for what he haf done..I knew I couldnt..I actually hated my ex for what he did..I thought a part of me died until I met my now husband..my… Read more »

cheating is the worst betrayal ever ………

But forgiveness is a beautiful thing. It IS an option.

Invest your heart in me and mine in you for we shall smile forever…to whom it may concern.

Very true! Dont understand how anyone can tell someone they love them but at the same time go behind their back and cheat on them!?

If your going to cheat why commit to a relationship

If u r so unhappy or even tempted by another then leave before u cheat cause choosing to be with someone means all other cheap one night er gal or guy is voided because you made a choice don’t throw away a good thing for sex with another

Especially when it is your husband of 12 years!!!

It isn’t a mistake. But a choice. But I believe “once a cheater, always a cheater” doesn’t apply to everyone. There are people that changes as well.

I have already forgiven my boyfriend but. . . did you know what’s hard ?—- VERY HARD to FORGET 🙁

Once the trust is gone things will never be the same –

I know the feeling of being cheated on.

If you are truly in love, cheating wouldn’t even be on your mind. If you want to cheat break up first.

i agree, That’s one of the lowest things anyone can do to another person!

Best part is when they say they did it cause you made them do it. Lmao!

Forgiveness of a cheater is not a option is never an option. You will always remember.