This might just be the stupidest thing I’ve ever read. No one…. not even a soul mate…. can make you be the best YOU. YOU make you the best you. Your soul mate encourages your strengths, and accepts your weaknesses. The day anyone can make you anything (mad, happy, sad, etc) is the day you become nothing more than a program. This shit is why so many young woman feel they NEED a man to be whole. YOU are whole on your own…. just open your eyes to someone who accepts and loves the whole YOU.

A soulmate loves and accepts you the way you are, they do not consciously and intentionlly change you. They are essential to your personal growth, but it is inadvertently on their part. If someone intentionally tries to make you into anything, they’re a control freak not a soulmate.