People change regardless if they didn’t they’d still live their lives how they were without you. They change their mind sets from single mode to couple mode and compromises are made and a mutual respect of feelings is formed. You can’t not change.

changes makes people good to better,
but it will be for good things only.. 😉

If they are trying to change you for the better its OK not for the worse

This quote is somehow wrong..what if you just want that person to be better & just straightening his/her wrong ways..

Changing someone for the better is the only changing you should be doing. Everyone is human and has flaws no person or relationship is or will never be perfect…..

I don’t get it…I can’t seem to wrap my ADHD brain around this. ?

Some people need to change because they are going down a road of destruction. They change or live in their own personal Hell forever.

This is stupid. Your partner should want you to push them to become “something better”. Am I wrong Dayla ??

If they r trying to change you in a way that is very beneficial for your health , and your life , and encouraging you, then not true ! If they have other motivations etc.. Then yes.

Seriously? Change how? For the better only. If a girl or guy is trying to change you to fit them and only for their personal benefit leave them because likely they won’t give you the same respect

I disagree….There are different kinds of changes… When there is a child involved the partying and drugs need to stop. You are now responsible for a child and if you can’t change your ways for the better so your child can have everything they deserve then there is a problem. Sometimes when someone is trying to change you it’s for the better.

Doesn’t make sense, what If she/he wants to change u for our own good?

What about change for the better?

Once again if your not trying to change the person just trying to get them to make better choices then they will be better and greater in the end .you are always the same person your core of who you are doesnt change its all in how great you want you want your life to be its not about money or fame just about being a good person.

Ok…but what if your trying to change the person in s good way ..What if your man is selling drugs for a living..been together 5 years…been thru alt…he was shot 6 times and on life support ..few years ago…he still insist on selling drugs and being in streets…I’ve grown up…he hasn’t…am i wrong for trying to steer him in diff direction…like get a job and stop the bull shit??

No one should ever try to change anyone… If you dont accept them the way they are then maybe you really dont love them… You love what you want them to be not who they truly are. Love yourself people .. If you want to change then do it for yourself not to please anyone… Because you will never make them happy even if you do change for them

Unless its change for the better, and not for your selfish reasons but for their own good, that’s real love, your not supporting their flaws like others but trying to make them perfect but in a generous way. Some changes are worth it!!

And also, if you keep finding faults and keep trying to change the person you’re with, you aren’t supposed to be with them. Quit belitting them and move on.

I’m not Changing for no one take me or leave me if u don’t like it

If its healthy changes it shouldn’t matter.

I definitely disagree with this, I feel like if you love someone, you change for yourself. Not them.

If they are trying to help you change for the better, I don’t see an issue.

You have to accept someone for who they are! When are women going to learn that you can’t change a man. He has to want to grow and change for himself. If you are attempting to change someone then you don’t truly love them, you love the thought if who you want them to be. We are suppose to be help mates as men and women. Meaning help someone move toward their goal, not what you want that goal to be.

I think a couple should meet half way… You enter a relationship so it means ur open for changes.. Your committed and some of your single lifestyle must be adjusted… Yes we need spaces to grow but if you don’t well better stay out of the relationship coz your not just making it worse but your breaking someone just to be with them with your own desire and needs… It’s a commitment so both sides should adjust to make things Better not bitter…..