i wasnt afraid of being alone i stayed for the kids but thats unheathly for everyone

Or you just cant admit you made a huge mistake. Or maybe you stay for the kids.

I was there for a long time. I finally decided that all the pain to stay was worse than the pain and fear of being alone.

Your life will get better when you realize it’s better to be alone than to chase people who don’t really care about you.

None of the above. I just always believed there was good in him.

All I can say to this is God give them the strength!!!! I SURVIVED N FOUND AN AWSOME MAN!!!!! Lance Muth

Sometimes you just have to fight for what you really want and need in life. There will be rocks in the path but together we can climb mountains

Let’s not forget those that stay because of their children.

Sometimes no matter what happens, you honestly do love that person. And you stay because you love and care about them. Even when you shouldn’t. Also because you love them more than yourself or more than anyone you might have thought you loved before.. yes a part of you is afraid you will not find another person like them.

Fall out, and find one that you deserve! Before you’re stuck, you will feel better!

I wish I was smart enough to leave my destructive relationships years ago, but I’m happy that I finally did, even though I didn’t do it alone but when I found someone special who helped me get out of there.

That was my problem until about a month ago. Then I realized how much I was putting myself through by staying without the relationship changing.

I em afraid of being alone and I don’t want any other person except him…

The hardest part for me to get passed was this: you miss the person they used to be in the beginning, you hold on, waiting for them to be that sweet guy. Once you realize it was not the real him. You can let go. He will never be that guy you fell for in the beginning. The one that was pretending.

I got out of mine after 5 years of me constantly being torn down, and found someone better. theres always a light at the end of the tunnel.

This is something I’m struggling with right now. For me I think it’s both. It’s not an easy thing to deal with or get out of .. even harder when you have kids with that person.

or kids too the reason..

Don’t base your relationships only in the bad moments, take account for all the happy ones.

Every Relationship has its good moments and its Hard times.. But its those that grow& learn from eachothers mistakes that make it worth staying.every good memory surpasses al the bad ones

I stayed far longer than I should have. It took a lot of prayer and improving my relationship with God before I realized that there’s a difference in being alone and lonely. Not only that but staying just makes it that much harder to leave. Run & run fast, it’s not going to be easy but I promise you that you’ll be much happier and stress free. Loving the new me and my new life, God is good!!!

When you can finally leave a destructive r’ship, it may take years to heal…but at least you make room in your heart for someone to love you.<3

You are in a controlling relationship where that person makes you doubt who you truly are and what u deserve. Stop being the victim and be your heroine.

The longer you stay, the more you hurt yourself!

Or because they really do love that person, no matter how that person may be, you fell in love with them for a reason, if you trully love someone you’ll always want to be with them, no matter what the circumstance. You can always work problems, its just a matter of listening and understanding how the problem was caused and what could of gone better and learn from our mistakes. Happy endings happen in fairy tales, not in real life, we are human and we will screw up more than we intend, its just a matter of finding a person… Read more »

i am afraid of being alone but I rather be alone then spend the rest of my life in a relationship that makes me suffer.