Everyday, I try to be a better me!

but what if you do both???

yes

I needed to hear that cuz thats exactly whats going on. Nd i do need to compete w myself

Can you please say that again!

Always !!!

BOOM

who writes these ‘rules’ !!??? each person’s path is their own. we all have instincts…problem is we need to re-learn how to listen to them. I’m NOT pointing a finger at you at all….this is a concept I’ve shared many times. part of the problem is were conditioned to avoid confrontation..we talk ourselves out of those initial instinctual reactions to folks.we also must be wholey HONEST with family, friends & ourselves. getting quiet & letting thoughts bubble up is un nerving & if you allow those moments, we have the answers. I have been wondering why I don’t put my… Read more »

We need acceptance of ourselves and others

Galatians 6:4 NLT

Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else.

compete with yourself and don’t mind others,they’re just a nuisance in your plans and dreams..you are accountable on yourself and nobody else..remember successful people have strong convictions on themselves..coz they’re the one who solely knew they’re real situations..^_^

Or you turn psycho.

I have learned to be my own yardstick…

Nobody ever became complete watching others…Focus on your own journey and learn from your own mistakes…!

My goal for my life is to attain some level of improvement everyday! That makes me feel better daily!

This is also true in sports!!!

so stop all competing and relax b)

B)

That it

very well said…

Not entirely true. However an individual chooses to improve themselves depends on true own limits and feelings of themselves and others. Some competition can be healthy and can not only help improve yourself, but also the person you’re competing with, be it a friend who also wants to improve, a pure rival, etc. However, take that competition too far and it gets in the way of some things. Some are dedicated to improving themselves that all they need is the mentality of wanting to surpass their own limits. Others are too hard on themselves more than they are on others,… Read more »

Older, wiser and much better each year.

Why do you need to compete with yourself or anyone else. Just be yourself. Participation is good enough. It is this attitude of being the winner which has made our lives misable. Live, stop running.

…and most folks just don’t comprehend this. Sad.

I agree