I’m getting kinda tired of this site blaming the women for the cheating man… ever stop to think these women are just as hurt burned and scarred as girls in the actual relationship… way to alienate them. I know you just hit your 1 millionth like but youre making me strongly question whether I even wanna stay on a page that is so judgmental. … the other woman by the way cries herself to sleep more than u know is judged and the woman up ahead who insulted the single woman raising a man’s baby who had a wife where… Read more »

Firstly it Has nothing to do with how one has been raised. If u ” wives” were taking care of wat needs to be taken care of to keep ur husbands home… Then they wouldnt seek it else where.. Wud they? secondly, yes i do agree that the “other women” in some cases are treated much better than the wives… Thirdly .. The wives that know yet still put up with it n call the other women hoes… Who is the stupid one , really. Knowing ur husband has another !!! I cud go on n on etc etc etc…… Read more »

A “relationship” that doesn’t start out right will never work. If u are the other woman it isn’t starting out right!

If he was a real man he wouldn’t have to cheat because he would have the balls to tell his wife !! If his wife knows an doesn’t kick his ### out then she has crossed over from love to stupidity !! I’m saying that some couples can’t work things out an stay together but if it happens again she’s a fool !! And if the other woman thinks he loves her she’s wrong she’s just a side piece !!!!

What about if they don’t want “a relationship” and they want the best of both worlds? A man who takes care of “business” but you don’t have to cook or clean for him? I’m just saying…..

Haha sure it is… A relationship is just the connection we have with another individual… It’s just not a healthy one ;P

I wish some women would understand that instead of saying “he comes home to me”…It sounds childish.

Shit the other woman get treated better!! It’s a relationship too!!

Everyone needs variety… And some of us do not need a ring on our finger to show we are important to anyone. We are independent and able to support ourselves alone. Who wouldn’t be attracted to that??

To the other woman… How do you know what he is telling his wife? She may not know you exist. IF he wanted to be with you, he would get out of the first relationship to be with you. If he is still with her, there is a reason he has not put you first.

TRUE!!! I wouldn’t feel hate towards her. I’ll feel sorry for her. She is as low as the ground, waitin around for a call or wutever. Not havin dignity or respect towards her. Waitn n hoping for her sloppy seconds. Sad very sad.

“if you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.” damn you home- wreckers

I AGREE. In this case, he is cheating on eveyone; therefore, every woman involved is considered the other woman – although she may legally be designated “wife”or “main”. the man who cheats disrespeccts all involved (including himself) and no woman should be demeaning each other over a man’s malicious or inappropriate choice to cheat. Wake up ladies. I see too many of you allow men to make fools of you, while you are already making a fool of yourself. I quote: “Remember if he cheats WITH you he will cheat ON you”

Remember if he cheats WITH you he will cheat ON you

Oh god the only reason why your husbands dont “leave” you “wives” is because theyre stuck in that routine yall established

True but if ur the other man its the same right??? Just saying. I know u post a lot about women and u show lots of respect which is awesome. Just saying it works both ways.

I knew a woman like that once. She always had a thing for married men because she had always ended up with them. The first guy she had a baby by in hopes of him leaving his wife to go off with her and marry her instead, but he ended leaving her and stayed with his wife. The next guy is separated from his wife and is not seeking a divorce. He goes and visits his wife and children regularly, and his “other woman” gets mad and jealous when he does so, and claims “he is cheating on her” when… Read more »

If there’s an “other woman” there is no real relationship

Because all women start out hearing the truth… that he’s married right? The man never lies and says he’s in the middle of a divorce or worse yet single nope all girls who get in this situation must be evil hoes.. all people are looking for the same thing true love unfortunately statistically there are more women in the world then men… also I dare you to tell this to happily married polygamist marriages… a lot of the people on here are being rude because someone hurt them once… but the other woman hurts too. I feel bad for people… Read more »

Also when the wife finds out and kicks his butt out, of course he’ll run to you. So marry him and then YOU can worry cuz if he did it to me, he sure as hell will to it to you! Careful what you wish for! A leopard never changes his spots!!

It IS a relationship… And we are not the “other woman”. We are one of his women. I he truly loves his wife, he wouldn’t choose another.

It’s so beautiful when you are “THE ONE”.

Wow. These post r crazy…sometimes people grow together and sometimes they grow apart. Some ppl get married for the wrong reasons to begin with. Depending on the situation….no matter who u are…wifey…girl…other woman….what have u…what ever is meant to be will be. You can not always control who you love or the future….be who u are and love who love.

And just because there is another woman, it doesn’t mean she is aware that she is (or in a man’s case, he is) a “hoe.” Maybe they don’t want the responsibility of maintaining a relationship and just want the sex and an occasional help around the house, physically or financially. It takes 2 to tango so stop blaming the other person when the one who took the vows is stepping out.

I was cheated on and I held my husband accountable. The woman who he got involved with was not a hoe. She just happened to be at the right place at the right time. He’s the douchebag that didn’t take the vows seriously.