Haha~ I put all the cards on the table. Clear and simple. If they care enough to change, then awesome! You’ll have a friend for life.

So true

I accept ppl for who they are bez I want to see thro them , not at them

Absolutely Love

I wish he would just stop flirting with other girls :'(

well, When you are honest and “put ur cards on the table” most of the time they turn their back.. especially the beloved ones. = but at least u realize how you worth for them.

Well said!

I did just that and he still refused to change. I walked away coz i refuse to be his second

I say the person that wants someone else to change might need to look at themself first because no one is perfect.

easier said than done.

So much eadiet said tgan done!!

I believe in honesty. This a perfect example of being honest to someone u care about!!

Ya but then they say you are controlling them and you can leave the relationship anytime you want.

I did, but they still haven’t changed anything.

I did this still no change after many chances. But I found what I’m looking for and I’m happy

If you decide to get into a relationship with someone knowing their issues, then you shouldn’t expect them to change. If you wanted someone different, then be with someone different.

True!

or maybe you should accept the person!!!

Pick your poison. Everyone comes with Something. Decide what you can and can’t deal with.

Just be ready to hear what they would like for you to change as well.

Did that. Didn’t work.

Lies…..all lies… people can change…if someone loves you theybmay want you to change…FOR THE BETTER….

Yea flippin right. Maybe if they’re willing to compromise instead of being a giant jackass who would rather be right than in a relationship.