I have to disagree. If you are not interested in someone, but that someone gets a friend to talk them up to you in order to drop your guard, then turns out to be a lying, cheating, alcoholic whore, I think the person who recommended them deserves some of the blame.

This literally takes the blame away from whoever hurt you. That is rediculous.

Sometimes it’s better to take the risk so at least you know.

Yeah yeah… Took a chance and found out thats not worth it

It is right I went for it without thinking n so I blame myself for whatevere I have done but never again I think I will do this mistake I have learned a good lesson

Yeah, but never blame me if I correct you.and don’t be mad. You can fight me if you like.

Kisi ke liye…sb kuch krte h….but kya inna v haq ni ki usse thodi umeed rkhe ki atleast hmre mushkil time pr hmre sath….hoye….need someone….???

Lol, self inflicted wounds are the worst. Choose wisely my friend.

Well no not really ??. You trusted them not to hurt you. So they are to blame.

This is like saying “be careful what you ask for because you’ll get that shit double “

I think that one or two of you have been emotionally physically or financially abused we call it used shame on them but sometimes they don’t understand the meaning of shame

I’ve been accused of everything else, might as well take all the blame too?

But really…blaming is unhealthy. It is better to be honest with yourself about your contribution and to learn from the experience

This is so stupid. This is literally like saying don’t get mad if someone hits your car while driving, because you made the decision not to walk 20 miles to work.

I know and that’s why why I am so scared sometimes. Am I doing the right thing? Am I fighting with others for the wrong person? Only time have my answers.

Dumb
So someone gets hurt so bad they have to be admitted to a psychological Institute. It is their fault for falling in love with a filthy worse than a whored scum bag. It is their fault?????

That fact is we take the risk because are not thinking we’re going to be hurt. That way of thinking takes a lot of being screwed over to come about. So this is very false. It’s more or less the same as victim blaming. Not sure who came up with this one, but they seem bitter over breaking someone’s heat and getting blamed for it.

Its always better to assume responsibility then to play the blame game ! With responsibility comes empowerment vs blame that comes with feeling a sense of helplessness . Yes , someone can hit your car but it’s your responsibility to take your car to repair shop to get fix. We are agents of free will and we must see the cause and effect of life and see how we can change results by changing our choices.

Did he use you use contraception’s not you Ruth meet someone who who move mountains to be with your love unfortunately the world is too big I hope one day you will meet someone who deserves your love more your respect that is love ++=

There are a lot of sad lonely people in this world you learn to let go forgive and meet someone else who is worth your love and attention

There is always a risk factor to anything we decide to do or we set our sights on in life … We may like or dislike the outcome ..blaming someone else is so immature .

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make.

Always blame yourself as you could not judge the person earlier. Relationship is like a project, you need to study,prepare and then approach your life partner.

I disagree with this. If you trusted someone (yes you took the risk) but they should take ownership of hurting someone intentionally/unintentionally. Others actions are not to be blamed on your for trusting. And, they were worth the try until they revealed it was a bad idea. Either way…the only blame there should be is if they treat you this way and you stay. <3

Yeah you don’t want to take the chance and the guy over and over says I won’t hurt you like you have been hurt I would never do that too you I know how it feels, so you believe him and take a chance little by little letting your guard down then bam you see him out with another Woman I did NOT ask for that!