How can anyone possibly love someone that doesn’t love you? How can anyone still love someone that disrespects you? Is this a case of low self esteem or no self esteem? Find your self worth. How can you expect anyone to love you if you don’t feel worthy of love? Turn your back and walk away from the vile creature, don’t look back and move on. Do you really think that this person is the only one on the planet that you can love? If so then you have issues that need to be addressed. Heed the advice from the… Read more »

I have to ask myself, ‘Is it love? Or, just lust?’ I need to learn to love myself, before the Law of Positive Attraction (God, actually) will bring someone into my life who actually loves me.

It is what it is… Way I see it ..Love stays but humanity goes astray. Like same as life remains even after ones past away. .. love if you really love that person ..Never end..But will separate and move on.

What I’m going through right now! Wish I could just not feel right now…I want to be numb! It’d be a lot easier!

Definitely true.. Love is so powerful that you can’t define it. Even when you feel so much pain still you end up to love that person.

Maybe it’s the other way around or even a torturous reciprocity; a mind that rules it’s heart. Ih well! We’re screwed either way!

ohhhhhh there are ways that are fool proof…the EX, did them all. Now it’s as if she never existed. So pardon Me, while I play on ! FOUR !!

She just dumped me :(, she just surrender her love for me. Haist, It’s still hurt but you have to carry on 🙂 You don’t deserve the hurt 🙂 Know your worth

Disagreed , I’ve been so much in love, I think I couldn’t live without him but you know time will change everything, doesn’t how much you love them if they don’t show they give a shit back well why still think of them ? Why still love them? Don’t waste your time to wait for something that won’t happen when you already know from the first started

She broke up with me coz i didn’t spend many time on her coz i was busy for planning and working for our future. Its hard for me to move on i set goals, plans for our future then suddenly it turns like my world falls down, because she’s the meaning to my world. If i could just turn back time and spend all my time to make her feel my love on her.. ?

Depending on the circumstances it can be impossible. If the person has been nothing but good to you, being without them is terrible. You can try EVERYTHING erase their #, not communicate with them, not see or text them. You can even live far away from them. If it’s real it doesn’t go away. I’ve never been one to believe in this kind of love before. Only now after the experience, have I formed this opinion. Doesn’t mean I’m with him, yet I don’t love him any less, and I miss him so much more. He gives me something that… Read more »

The hardest part is forgetting about the one person that you trusted with your emotions and memories. Especially when they were the first person that you let inside of your head letting them know the real you and your true feelings. Then they turn around and end up using your feelings towards them against you.

This is so true. I’ve tried so many different ways, even to hate my ex for stupid things. It’s impossible. I feel like the only way to cope with it is to treat her like she has passed away and I know that hard for some people to read because they’ve had their love pass away. Just I long to hear her voice. Last year before my third deployment to the Middle East I was holding her at the airport and I remember saying to her as I was hugging her, “I don’t want to let go ’cause I’m afraid… Read more »

Absolutely! And you need both your heart and mind but they are both going in different directions. No wonder those of us appear to be so “all over the shop” and seem to jump from devastatingly upset to total indifference and back again. I love the below comment that “the mind replays what the heart can’t delete.” So true.

I love him because he is my heart ‘s key.unfortunately, he cheated me like this way.i may be love a wrong person. I miss him …cant forget our love .Also,I need to back to my life.

??? yes indeed. No matter how hard u try to not think about that person , no matter what u do to try and keep yourself busy to avoid thinking about that person. Your still going to love them. Only time will help to heal the heartbreak.

Every time you think of them, imagine them taking a nasty splattering stanking, chunk blowing, diarrhea DUMP!!! You will soon stop thinking about them! (From an old psychology book)

Illogical….. Haha… Your brain commands everything except those involuntary functions…. And heart does not think it just pumps blood….. So technically speaking it’s your brain playing double bluff with you. ??

Almost impossible but definitely NOT impossible, because you deserve to love yourself alone, and once you can do that again, there will be someone amazing out there for you ❤

Yes and it’s horrible even when we know those people aren’t worth a single ounce of it… I’m not going thru it but my daughter is… It’s so hard to know she loves someone who is nothing but garbage and won’t ever be anything good

You never truly get over someone, you just have to deal with the pain until one day you’re numb to it all. It’s the most agonizing pain to lose someone who meant everything to you…

Well….not really. Break-ups tend to immortalize what the real relationship was at first, when really we need to be honest with ourselves and remember why we got the “stop loving” part. That’s when the hurt stops.

I love him so much, love that can make me give up everything just for him. And now i realize i should love myself than anything co’z at the end no one is with me but myself.

I have recurring dreams of my ex husband leaving me over and over. It usually ruins the next day after the dream. I didn’t understand why this was happening because we’ve been divorced for 21 years. Then I read a post on Facebook that said : the mind replays what the heart can’t delete. That said it all.