It’s funny that about 80% of the comments on here are from women. I think women use their sexuality to change circumstances far more than men. The women who do that don’t consider it flirting but if you asked the men that they do it to, I would bet that they would.

When you’re told its only flirting its nothing but flirting involved sending noodz and playing out fantasies online. Yes “flirting”
Seems to be alot of females here saying its alright aswell ?? gotta keep all those back up dicks keen i guess?

May be some guy never flirt with his wife since they start relationship, long term relationship make him want something new and start flirting the new one he met and have a crash on her as he won’t feel to do it with his wife and have this feel to do with his other significant. If he has flirting behavior to everyone i front of you i would take it easy but if he is secretly doing with the one he crash on behind that’s would count as cheating. Your man definitely know himself if he is cheating on you.

Gosh, if only i had paper skin and glass bones could i be harmed by flirting. if only i had some ‘specialty’ complex where my self worth and value was dependant on someone viewing me as the most amazing person on a planet with over 7 billion humans. and thought only i was handsome, and only i was funny so i can feel special. but i don’t :’3

There are so many types of cheating while in a relationship. Flirting is definitely one of them, because there is no such thing as innocent flirting, but a simple text to a person of the opposite sex when you know your own intentions, or you can get a vibe of theirs.. Emotional, verbally, physically… honestly, there is no point in getting into a committed relationship with someone unless you can keep your eyes on your partner. Unfortunately, I think this is why so many marriages and relationships are falling apart…because people want to hook-up and experience the rawness of new… Read more »

It’s depend upon your perceptions, in which way you see the things. First learn to difference between love,flirt, friend ship, platonic relationship etc. Lots of relationship available in this world.

We all need to practice what we preach what you do will be done to you in the same measures. If you are cheating with someone just be ready for yours because you will get yours in the same measures and what’s in the dark will come light. Amen

I disagree with this statement. If it goes beyond flirting then it would be cheating. Some people are flirtatious by nature and can’t help it and some people are very sensitive and don’t like there partner flirting. It takes team work and trust to get past it.

Maybe not technically “cheating” but pretty damn disrespectful of your partner. Reminds me of when my ex flirted with me while he was in a relationship and I was single. I refuted his advances and thought to myself how I dodged that bullet… felt awful for the poor girl he was with though.

Like being on your partners position how would you feel it she/he does that? It’s true when saying cheating, and that should be the moment to decide if it’s fair to continue while you feeling like your partner is cheating. Just don’t do it, avoid it… if so you say your partner is the most important in your life.. then don’t

I don’t understand how this is not common sense. Sure some couples are OK with each other flirting, I for one do not share so if you like her enough to have pet names you can date her and not me. I don’t need a man that keeps that window of opportunity open. I need to be with a man that loves me enough to make the other woman jealous of me not me jealous of them.

It depends if that flirting involves physical touching. Otherwise, I feel it’s just harmless fun most of the time. Your partner still goes home with you. But yes, also agree with the below post. If it hurts your partner, please don’t do it. Your partner’s feelings should be the most important thing to consider.

If you want to flirt then be single. In my opinion it’s completely wrong to flirt while in any kind of relationship! It’s extremely DISRESPECTFUL! Having your cake and eating too is bullshit!

Stop and ask yourself, how would this make my partner feel? If the answer is in anyway hurt or relation to it, it’s cheating. If your partner wouldn’t want you doing it, whatever the reason, just dont.

I wouldn’t label it as bad as cheating. BUT, it is a highly disrespectful thing to do to someone who you claim you love. Especially if you’re fully aware that you’re flirting, and that you know it’ll hurt your partner. If you wouldn’t want your partner doing it to you or behind your back, you have no right to do it to them.

The line between being nice and flirting seems to be blurred and can vary from person to person. What I see as being nice my GF says is flirting. This is also dependent on the situation. If youre at a bar and youre in a relationship and you’re buying a girl a drink or two… Yes, that’s treding the flirting cheating line. If you’re just talking and that’s it, I don’t see the issue.

Yes absolutely, be honest with your partner and respect his/her feelings and trust!! If u are not genuine you don’t have any right to play with them. Be serious because Karma pays back. Don’t do that ??

I don’t think it is as bad as cheating. It’s more like lying if your partner has an issue with it. I am a natural flirt and it comes as easy to me as breathing. When I was younger I was pretty bad about and much of the time I didn’t even realize I was doing it. I had one boyfriend back then who was the same way and neither of us cared about the other one flirting. It got us free drinks and we would have competitions to see who could get the most phone numbers. In that case… Read more »

People in committed relationships who flirt typically have low self esteem. Flirting boosts their ego and validates that “yeah, I’m still hot”. This person will eventually cheat…as the flirting progresses it’s like a drug you need more and more to get your high. These kinds of people need therapy for self esteem issues before it ruins their lives.

People flirt in their working life all the time. In fact there is scientific evidence to prove that the most successful people are more flirtatious. It is purely a social tool. If you are flirting with the intention of engaging in an emotional or physical relationship with another person then that’s really not fair and not ok. My husband is the most loyal, faithful man in the world and would honestly run a mile if someone came on to him. But he also works in hospitality and sales! I’ve watched him lower his big lashes at old ladies, pay compliments… Read more »

? no question or justification for it. Either you are ready to be loyal and leave the single ways or not. There is no eating your cake and having it too. #Boundaries

Not really. I flirted with guys while married who I didn’t like and had no intention of ever dating. I ex husband was upset that I flirted with the guy in the Auto Zone once. I said ” Fool. That guy is so thug and so not my type. If we weren’t married, I wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole but I got you a discount. So, hush. Furthermore, if you get rid of this pile of junk Ford Taurus we wouldn’t be in the Auto Zone. I never come here for my Camry.” The next week we… Read more »

Some people will reason out that flirting while in a relationship helps or boosts their self-esteem. yeah, at the expense of your partner’s feelings.

Yes, it is. The definition of flirting is “behave as attracted to or trying to attract”. There is no justification for that when you’re in a relationship. There is no such thing as “innocent flirting”. Flirt with your partner. They should be the only one that you care to flirt with. If not, then you either need to flirt for a self esteem boost, enjoy the attention, or are just plain disrespectful of your relationship and should be single.

True… and saying your friendly is an excuse as well… there is a difference between being nice and friendly… people always mix that up too…