Some of these comments are fantastic. I like the “real men” ones. I actually believe the reverse of what Christianne said about being insecure if you can’t handle your man looking at other women, I think if this is a behavior you condone (your man having a wondering eye) in a relationship then you are too insecure to demand respect for yourself or walk away. Get some dignity & self respect and find someone who can walk by your side with integrity.

I disagree because if neither one of you don!t have neither one of you Jesus Christ in your life men our going to look.as long as they don’t touch .love you all GOD BLESS

Two things..1. Guys, you should have enough respect for your woman not to gawk at women in her presence. 2. Women really have two choices, you can accept that he’s going to look at other women at times as long as he doesn’t talk to or touch them like my GF does, OR you can accept that he’s lying to your face when he says he doesn’t look at other women. All guys look, and most women. They are usually better at not getting caught.

True,, that goes both ways tho I think,, but as soon as u make the person ur in a relationship feel like they ain’t on the top of ur list, they are done and good luck getting them back.

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Man nor woman can have the security a respectful relationship should bring of one of them has no focus on his/her partner.

Same can be said for men, we don’t want women who can’t keep their eyes and hands to themselves, and who can’t even tell “friends” who just want to get laid that they have a boyfriend.

Absolutely! I dont want that really my heart will not allow it. Want someone can demonstrate me i am the one. Im done! With those kind of people also my heart i will not handle it anymore

The same applies to women in relationships. I was with two women who werre literally “man-hungry”….one would act in heat if she was around anything remotely male. The other one, hell, I knew her entire sexual history, everytime we were out and about or at the store it was “oh, I used to date him/his Father/Uncle/Son. Have some respect for yourself and your significant other.

So true. One could not feel safe in a relationship with someone who has wandering eyes. Keep your eyes on your significant other, the others shouldn’t matter

Not being a woman I can’t speak to that. I can speak as a guy though. First I will say yes, men do look. However it’s not always because we’re jerks that are looking to cheat. A lot of us men look and never touch or make any other move. We look and for many of us it makes us think about what we have and how happy we are to have. Now that isn’t to say if a guy is doing it in front of you that there isn’t a problem. Because any guy who checks out another woman… Read more »

ladies, if your man has a wandering eye, do the same and give him a taste of his own medicine. look at other guys in front of his face and comment about his friends’ looks.. see how he feels. i guarantee he wont like it. and dont be discreet. this is exactly what ive been doing and he seems very bitter about it ? oh well, too bad! he made me feel insecure so im trying to make him feel insecure af too ? sorry but that’s what he gets!

True, Thank Goodness I got divorced, my Ex kept looking at other women through out our marriage, made me feel like the ugliest person. ?

And no man wants a woman who has her eyes and hands on every man…

And notice how many comments on this! And most in agreement. Objectifying and disrespecting women is an epidemic in our society! Women, don’t settle!

A man doesn’t want a woman that’s gotta be extra friendly, gotta answer, entertain, gotta get to know, stop to talk to, gotta embrace, every guy she sees either.
It’s a total turn off!!!

Because he may be lusting with his eyes.I have seen guys walking with their girl.turn around looking at females butts.without their girl knowing

You’ll never feel safe w/man of Wandering eyes. its Very rude & childish act like of a distort one. Real man are not disrespectful. It simply means your guy is not contented & will never be content w/anyone

Faaaaaacts. Or a man who caters to every woman that comes around. You don’t have to say yes to everyone. “No” is a word, and it can be used.

Yeah that shit gets old real quick. Quickest way to make me feel inadequate for you, not good enough or pretty enough. As if I need more help kicking my self esteem down

It creates insecurity and self esteem issues when a man does this. As they say though…only grown men will see what they truly have

This is primal. Men are “hunters”. Thats their nature. They always have wandering eyes. But real men do it discreetly especially when they are with their partner. Women shouldnt be insecure of this. If you are then that would be an issue, right? Better check on your insecurities. Just because they look (well duh they have eyes?), doesnt mean they will sleep with them and cheat on you. Coz if he does, well… isnt that a sign hes a jerk and that you should leave him? 😉 Everyone is allowed to notice and appreciate beauty. We’re all human after all.… Read more »

If you have a wondering eye, then you are going to wonder where I went!

Obviously ? how do you ever feel safe in a relationship where someone has a constant wandering eye? You can’t.