The worst feeling in the world is uncovering a trail of lies that spans years. That’s when you start to question the reality of everything!

No guilt,shame or remorse makes for a very sick person. See it often. Selfish and self centered are almost everywhere. It’s only when we start giving everything we have that we break out of that cycle ourselves.

It’s pretty easy for selfish people with no conscience.

Habitual liars begin to believe their lies are the truth. Runnnnn!

Because you keep believing them and don’t do nothing about it. Purest form of insanity the same thing over and over expecting a different result.

I question is how can you treat someone who saved your life help get your child back from DCF and gave you roof over your head never once treated unkind or cruel turn your back on them cheat on them lie to them bascily treat them like shit. That was my question in my 3 r relationship

So true. I am guessing a person gets so use to not telling the truth…that it’s second nature to lie OR in their alternative world lying is actually truth.

I find it amazing how people can lie about you, tell everyone they know things that are not true and have never happened. Then ask you why you have a problem and no longer want to associate with them.

Narcissists don’t feel bad about anything other than themselves. Toxic to be around.

they have no conscience, no integrity & don’t care – they are not worth knowing

They can’t tell you the truth because that would mean they are not perfect.

It’s called entitlement. And yes they believe in there lies and deceitful Ness and they hurt the ones they say they love. Welcome to their ways, or turn and run .

Because they have told so many before and eventually they start to believe the lies are truth. Its not a talent, its deceitful and cruel.

Well… expearienced this with ex husband and 3 exes and still can’t understand what there moved in their brains while lied to me but it doesn’t matter anymore and for me it’s the same to whom they lie today but not anymore can do this for me ?
I know my beloved Gary won’t ever lie to me and I won’t ever lie to him ❤

I think these people have no conscience and it they do then they have not used it for so long that they have become immune to obeying it… In my opinion that little voice we hear inside our head when we are about to do something wrong is the god given conscience that he gave to us so we would know right from wrong and we would do well by obeying it .I always do.

That is because they don’t have a conscious and feel like they are doing nothing wrong, they are deceitful,uncaringand self center

Coz it becomes a habit unfortunately that it comes naturally and they ignore that they break their trust and hurt the one who they’re lying to and break their heart ?? so cruel

I agree..came to the conclusion you cannot have a heart to love anyone with or a conscious that considered anyone else but yourself when you can lie to another person so much and never bat an eye. It takes a heartless soul to chose to do that to anyone and never even acknowledge the destruction they cause with families and children due to thier choices. I’m like everyone else. Will never understand how anyone can chose to lie so much ?

That is called a Bullshitter. They believe their own stories.
You can tell a Bullshitter by watching their wandering eyes as they are Bullshitting!

the real dilemma is she telling you that she lied for your own good , so you don’t get angry , i mean wow there is a million word dying to get out of your mind but they don’t so you suffocate from your own ideas

It depends on what the person lies about. I’ve lied to people just to avoid drama and confrontation from them. It’s tiring to get shit all the time for trying to live my life the way it makes me happy. I don’t want to defend lying in any way but sometimes you gotta look in the mirror and ask yourself if maybe you’re controlling or hurtful to the person to the point they lie to please you.

It must be agony to live like this. I hope people have the courage to get the help they need. A life without lies and secrets is the only way to actually LIVE life, not just go through the motions.

A liar will start to believe their own lies. Then they try to blame it on you…make you the bad guy.

Never trust someone who lies to you.
Never lie to someone who trusts you.
Once a lie has been made, it’s difficult to gain that trust back.

True , just wonder how could one have a peace of mind knowing all the lies he / she have done not only to the family , friends and to his/her self as well