Disagree. Fights doesn’t lead you to a healthy relationship. Fight together for what they want and the future I understand that but fighting for little things that’s not from a mature person. We are adults and we can talk about anything not fight.

True. And at the end of it all…those outsiders who you trusted for condolences…you find out their projections of their own insecurities dictate their biased opinions; judgemental ignorance. When your heart and situation affirms you to stay, don’t quit now, gaining new level of patience and grace…those outsiders can’t understand because they don’t live your life. So they get violent angry and petty grudge… It’s retrospective moments l like these, I realize my relationship ain’t perfect but thank God I am not nearly as bad as the those who are most negative. It makes sense why they are so cruel,… Read more »

Yes and no. Yes things would be better if we communicated more and stopped the fighting. Sometimes emotions get the best of us and we act out instead of trying to be mature adults and talk through the issues. But no relationship is perfect. And we would be lying if you said you didn’t have at least one argument throughout their relationship. But honestly, communication is key. What’s best is when you realize that your relationship is more important than your differences. The good CAN outweigh the bad. It’s just that it takes some people longer to realize that.

There’s a limit though. You can’t just fight all the time. Also, you can’t fight over silly things the whole time. I think sometimes when lots of fighting occurs, there’s someone with either a very short fuze or someone who can turn anything into a fight. This is possible though. I’ve actually read somewhere that couples that are made up of two “fight-prone” individuals tends to work because they have a better understanding of what the fights mean and why they do it, something like that. Either way, I prefer my relationships drama and fight free. A little fighting here… Read more »

Dis writeup is bullshit. Y wld u call a relationship where we fight everytime perfect??? Are u kidding. U nid to check d meaning of perfect again and delete dis lame write-up

No use with fights, n arguments
Ur last mistake is ur teacher.give time, priority to ur family more than any thing else.secrets lies and Cheating kills ur relation.

Nonsense. I don’t think it means you’re a stronger couple. We’ve been together for 9 years and haven’t had one major fight because we talk. Sure, we bicker and niggle but that’s all.

Disagree! It’s called communicating not fighting. And when you have DISAGREEMENTS, you work thru them by discussion, listening to their POV and applying what they have told you. That’s how true change, growth, trust and love are maintained continually. So listen and apply. Not just bitch, argue and complain.

There is a right way and a wrong way to fight or to have a disagreement with the one you love. All couples have arguments and if it is done in a respectful manner where both parties opinions are heard and a compromise is reached it will strengthen the relationship. Neither party should dominate the other. The occasional disagreement is normal in any relationship.

We grow and we continue to learn about each other, in the end of it all, we are grateful for one another. we become more careful and patient with one another. we learn to open up a little bit more and it’s scary but at the same time it’s relief to know we can trust one another with things no one else would ever understand. – Sash Wesley

I’d like to add that this isn’t always true. If fighting brings you to the realization that your partener is controlling or abusive, then you learn to leave.

Not true. My last relationship was nothing but fighting, and it certainly wasnt stronger. With this logic, abusive relationships must be the best then. Um, NO.

Couple who talks about things and their differences are the strongest, fighting over and over again is a sign of weakness, a relationship who doesnt have a good comunication a relationship who doesnt respect each others peace of mind. You stay together after a countless of fights isnt a sign of a strong relationship but its a sign of weakness, bcuz either you or your partner cant be brave enough to cut the string that binds yous despite being miserable

Disagree, you don’t have to fight to come to terms with your differences. You can be adults about it and understand that you may think differently than your partner and that’s ok, Relationships are about compromise. My wife and I understand that we think differently about many things, but we have a great open line of communication no matter what. Sometimes it may hurt but we are adults. No our relationship isn’t perfect, but there is no reason to argue, yell or scream at each other. At the end of the day we are a team and we are in… Read more »

I have been married to the same women for 64 years. Marriage is like a partnership, if you do not work together and play together, you will not stay together. Love, honor,respect for each other is the glue that holds the marriage together. Sure you will have times of disagreement, but it is how you handle the problem that counts.

I’ve been with my boyfriend since I was 14, that being 9 years now. We rarely ever fight, instead we talk about things before they become an issue. We don’t let little things bother us and we let each other be our own individual while simultaneously being a team.

I disagree with this. I can understand fights about monetary issues or something serious like that, but if people fight constantly about little things, it’s not healthy for the relationship. All you know is how to get under people’s skin, and in that anger partners push those buttons on purpose to piss the other off. It’s not right honestly.

Couples who can communicate about an issue before it becomes a fight, in my opinion, are the strongest and most committed to making things work.
I’m done fighting. Completely at a place in my life where if I can not communicate with you about something before it becomes an issue, I don’t have time for you or your games.