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Candice Cheek
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The problem with this is that sometimes our hurt is triggered by something small that only bothers us because it reminds us of a past situation that may not have ended so well. Sometimes acting cool is necessary to assess the situation for what it is and not what you fear it is or may end up being. If you give it room to breathe you may more than likely see it isn’t a repeat of past hurt, unless you project that feeling on your partner- which could result in a self fulfilling prophecy….. Don’t get me wrong, if I’m… Read more »

Randall Duke
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Me in a nutshell…if you have me you have all of me…betray me and the bridge to you never existed

Pam Ellis
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It would be much easier and far less painful to do detached. Must remember this.

Donatella Schiano Roschuni
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sometimes hurt happens, you get over it, and rebuild the relationship. quitting never solved a thing.

Melinda Robles
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The struggle is REAL- to burn that bridge.
Can be the hardest thing to ever do.

Ed Binns
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This made me stop and think because in all honesty if anyone were asked to describe me in one word I think it would most likely be detached… Which is possibly the furthest thing from what I feel.

Adrein D W Smith
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I don’t do detached . I have become detached.. feel like I’m floating above my self..watching my life..and angry at what I c but helpless n stuck

Valerie Marshall
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That is sad because we All make mistakes and when we forgive we can open our hearts to something wonderful!

Francisco E. Castaneda
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(Gulp)
I don’t think I can just cut someone out like that by being hurt once.

Jean Dube-Brown
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If someone hurts you , you might forgive but never forget. If you can detach yourself from them because of that then evidently you never cared or loved them much.

Krista Sanford
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That about sums it up for me, I actually thoroughly dislike the mind fuckery that normally goes along with human relationships. Amen to the above.

Matthew Theobald
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All is true, but the last part. You must be forgiving if someone hurts you and understanding if someone doesn’t feel the same way about you as you do about them.

Laura Madeline Graham
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Maybe it’s those ACoA traits coming out, but I could never burn those bridges because it takes so much for me to actually build those bridges in the first place… When it’s been time to move on, I have managed to close doors, but I don’t lock and throw away keys. If you need me, then I’ll still be there –ever the responsible, dependable one.

Ch'aska Rojas-Böttger
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I think everyone understands “detached” differently. For me detached is being willing to be very vulnerable without expectation – no attachment TO OUTCOME. When you are attached to an outcome, you also fear it and hold back. If you’re not afraid of a negative outcome, you can focus on being with your feelings – whatever they may be, even pain – and allow yourself to feel and live fully. And no – doesn’t mean you should let others continue to hurt you. Just means you won’t hold yourself back from loving as hard as you can. <3

Laura Amelia
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Oh god that is such immature thinking as humans are very flawed and you don’t last 60 years with someone without you hurting each other and forgiving each other. People that think like that are often single and their relationships don’t last.

Bruce Vandercopin
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Wow. . . the first part of this had me captured and was raising the bar for humanity and then the last part put me right back in the mindset that people pretty much suck, lol.

Karolina Popiało
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If only this could be that simple… You get hurt. Over and over again. You think enough is enough. You walk away eventually. But there were so many things that brought you two together. Its not easy to forget that all. To get over it. To let it go, totally. And its not you dont forgive. You do. But you never forget. The hardest thing then is to never look back. Or even if not forget then to move on. Enough is enough. Shit happened. If only it all wasnt so damn hard.

Avitra Loutan
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I don’t do detached either. I don’t care about acting cool or playing hard to get when I like someone. If I do like u then u def have my undivided attention. I generally don’t believe in burning bridges however. The challenge is to find someone who does the same because I don’t have time for games. So happy hunting to u and wish me luck as well 😛

Lei González
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me siento identificada con la primera parte. I am all in. Pero I don’t have to burn the bridges if/when it doesn’t work anymore. Emotional intelligence is always a learning process

Martin Chauhan
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It’s funny when people who use too many “I”s play the possible victim or the threatener. Whoever wrote this meme should just thank her/ his stars for a relationship if it lasts even a day. The bridge will take care of itself.

Jean Ann Reiter
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Everyone gets hurt by someone they care about —be careful about burning that bridge 👍