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Amanda Mercado Guereca
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Amanda Mercado Guereca

Some times you can communicate till your blue in the face and your partner still does not get it. Some times it is best to just stop talking and let the chips fall where they may.

Shahd Al Abdullah
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Shahd Al Abdullah

If your partner means well, they’re taking off time to understand the situation on their own. You’d know because they’d still communicate that. The well being of the relationship is prioritized and issues eventually confronted. There is no reason to be misunderstanding and you should be able to respect them and their space. On the flip side, if you’re receiving a phlegmatic response, that stems from apathy. Anybody who is calculated and proceeds to ghost mode, is emotionally disengaged and their actions are intentional. When any communication at all, they’d convince you your emotions are erratic and invalid. If they… Read more »

Tayo Bankole
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Tayo Bankole

This is kinda hard tho, but if what you feel is genuine u will have to make an effort. no matter how hard it is, it’s always. better to communicate before it gets out of hand.

Colleen Lamb
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Colleen Lamb

Sometimes you have to! For your own sanity.. cheating no matter the form of it.. is the most disrespectful thing .. and to say idk why you did it .. is the lamest excuse! So yup only so much a person can take.. walking away and cutting off communications is the only way to get away. I would rather be alone.

Janet Manchester
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Janet Manchester

Yes……. talk and talk some more. Go to bed…..wait to talk again. But it needs to be resolved. Walking away does nothing but hurt. There are time when nothing works. Thats the sad part. Love has died.

TJ Hicks
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TJ Hicks

And sometimes they don’t work because you try your best to communicate but conversations take two and nothing gets better if they don’t want to listen.

Kerin Estment
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Kerin Estment

This is so true….. lack of communication will kill any relationship. Sweeping problems under the carpet won’t make them go away sadly. When a problem arises TALK and take action

Donna Maree
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Donna Maree

My biggest pet hate! I’ve ended relationships quickly when they do this and refuse to talk something through while I am hurting and feeling like I am being tortured and punished for something. It’s so disrespectful. How could you leave someone hurting like that? Clear signs they are not team players and have a high ego.

Charlie Page
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Charlie Page

Never good to ignore… However it is often fear of losing the person that they will choose to do nothing, for fear of hurting them more, when in fact these actions only hurt the other more. When they do talk we as people often try to lessen the blow of what’s been done. But the end result is still the same, hurt and the eventual parting of ways on bad terms… All because someone couldn’t muster the courage to face down what’s happened, this is often covered with lies or the truth being twisted, again to lessen a blow, not… Read more »

Debbie Leggat
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Debbie Leggat

When someone ignores you because they know it hurts you…not just for a short while but for days at a time and you pleed with them not to do it because its ripping you apart….you tell them how its making you feel but they’ll only stop when they want to ? sometimes people use silence as a way of emotional abuse not just that the want some time to reflect!!

Pete Doyle
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Pete Doyle

Its not just talking. Communication requires listening too. A lot of people arent trying to hear the other side of things. Theyve made up their mind, and the only way is their way. That’s not communication, thats narcissism.

Patrice de Meyer
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Patrice de Meyer

wish you luck to communicate with someone who doesn’t speek a word when he (or she) is mad :-D. Mission impossible, this is the little child in them who’s acting.
Guess it’s better to let them cool down. And to hope that they ever are ready to realise and perhaps share the real reason of their madness. But in fact, this is their own business.

Shandi Walthall
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Shandi Walthall

Yes! Thank you! My ex would be able to see that I was PISSED and he would ignore me. He would not acknowledge that anything was wrong or that he had messed up. I told him multiple times that it upsets me more when he shuts down and ignores issues instead of talking it out. My new bf always talks it out with me. We never go more than 20mins upset at one another no matter the cause or how upset either of us become. And its not the type of communicating where we just agree to get it over… Read more »

Mungo N Ernie
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Mungo N Ernie

I only ignore her when I’m angry because I hate the thought that I might hurt her feelings saying something I don’t mean. It’s better to wait and discuss the issue calmly. If only she knew, there would be less arguments.

Desiree Dawn Metcalf Watts
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Desiree Dawn Metcalf Watts

Just because somebody doesn’t talk to the person they’re fighting with for a little bit and they choose to go and think about the situations and all the facts to why the people are arguing or disagreeing doesn’t mean they cannot communicate doesn’t mean that it is wrong doesn’t mean you are ignoring somebody it means you are trying to get your emotions your thoughts and your feelings and facts straight before you choose to go and communicate and work out the issue with the other person get it straight you are allowed to not speak if you are upset… Read more »

Bill Moulas
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Bill Moulas

No. It ends because the person doing the bullshit behavior doesn’t stop doing the bullshit behavior even after they realize their partner is mad. Stop the bullshit behavior and they don’t get mad.

Westen Neumann
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Westen Neumann

Or because they act single.. and don’t keep in mind that when your in a relationship especially a marriage that you don’t get to make decisions on your own anymore

Jazmin Reynoso
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Jazmin Reynoso

Jonathan Alonso i dont ever want this to be us. If we have a problem with each other we work it our before going to bed. No ignoring at all. Communication makes the relationship stronger.

Lorraine Gosey
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Lorraine Gosey

Sometimes it’s best to not say anything when you’re mad. People say things out of anger that you can’t get back. Shut up, calm down, and then come back to have a civil conversation. Cooler heads prevail

Shanda Tero
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Shanda Tero

No they think it’s ok to turn to someone else when somethings wrong or if their unhappy instead of communicating with their partner trying to fix it..that’s the problem

Luvlia Hr
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Luvlia Hr

Communication is a key for a couple getting closer & closer..The bonding or two lovers will be getting intimate..luving & romantic..❤️ Without a good communication..the relationship will be end..?

Sarah Santiago
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Sarah Santiago

I’m the partner that ignores but in defense I keep quiet and ignore because I’m mad and don’t like to say what’s on my mind right then and there..doesn’t mean I am a bad partner..sometimes you need a breather and need to collect your thoughts before you say something you might regret..

Tracy Butler
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Tracy Butler

Well sometimes communicating doesnt work because the other person is mentally ill and undiagnosed and all the talking in the world wont matter and you get tired of wasting your life trying. We only have alife expectancy of 120 so dont waste your breathe and your life beating a dead horse.

Donna Kania
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Donna Kania

Communication is key. Never let your significant other go to sleep thinking you don’t care or that your relationship isn’t worth talking it out.

Sandy Spez
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Sandy Spez

Oh I know that one. And no he does not go and think about it and return. He hopes it just goes away which of course just exacerbates the situation.