Nowadays people dont know what is the real value of relationship…everyone seems to love playing around breaking someones heart just like that..breaking someone soul just like that..marrying someone then cheat on the person just like that!..its sad..but its too common..it happens alot..that is so disappointing..?

Jessica Beth this is soooo true ! That why I love you so much ! Because you are straight up and don’t ever lie to me ! And I love you so much for being honest and my best friend ! ???

And the worst thing is, they will blame you for being paranoid that they’re just “chatting like friends or go out like friends SECRETLY”
Once is enough, twice is too much
With 2 different girls?
????

Couldn’t agree more, the saddest thing is making a fool out of the innocent party, so cruel to do this to anyone but strong believer in karma, mess with feelings of others then expect karma at your door, nothing sexier than being transparent and not having your partner having any doubt, life to short to make someone second best ??

I think that if your in a relationship, or married you should not cheat, and if your not happy tell your partner and then leave don’t go behind there back and do something crazy. It’s not worth it,.

This is so true , so sad and so utterly selfish, destroying people’s lives , leaving families broken and yet all it would take is a little bit of honesty at the start ??

I guess people go through Whatever it takes to make it work. But the saying stands true today “if you don’t have trust, you don’t have nothing.”

Cassey JoAnn Bridges

Amen I am getting divorced because my wife couldn’t tell me she wanted something else and cheated on me. Then told me she didn’t think it would have mattered if she had been up front with it. Some folks just can’t help hurting others

So true. ..but karma comes along nicely and will kick u so hard in the face that u don’t know what hit u …and what next more karma ..

If there has to be all those SECRETS then it no need to have a relationship especially if u mentioned it over and over to your spouse and they still hide then it’s time to bounce

I’ve been talking about this in the last week or so. Text messages/fb messenger messages, not only lying about where your going, but omitting where you’ve been and with who!!
Some people don’t realize that all of this is cheating…one way or another ??

Or maybe your partner is just overly jealous and keeps on snooping around. I couldn’t even talk to my friends without him bursting out with huge rage. So I started to hide my messages and lie where I’m going to avoid pointless argues.

Yes decieving a partner in any way is a stopper for me.
IT WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.
If found out it is an instant termination of the relationship.

The sad part is .. they don’t even tell their partner that there’s an issue or usually try and resolve it before it gets to this stage .. likely there’s love there but maybe some issues came up or lacking in one area and the cheap thrill comes along and because they think they won’t get caught they go for it Ends up destroying other people’s lives on the process – very #selfish act If they were just honest in the first place – their partner wouldn’t spend years trying to figure out what they did wrong or years trying… Read more »

My ex husband ruined my marriage and my sense of self worth with this behavior…
Now I’m with a wonderful man…We know each other’s passwords- I never look though…why be with him if I don’t trust him? , Really…it’s up to him if he decides to hurt me…I trust that he won’t. And he could delete messages, delete pics, etc- but he’s the one who has to look himself in the mirror and look me in the eye. My man has integrity and character, he hasn’t failed me yet..❤️

It always seems to be geared towards men. My ex fiancee took 9000 dollars from me while cheating and left.
Fortunately that is the past and now i am happily married.

Exactly…no need for that nonsense. Just end the relationship you’re not happy in, regardless of any other factors!!!! Be with someone you love and are happy with and can give you the same!!!! <3 Life's too short to be miserable and unhappy. Where there's a will, there's a way. You're unhappiness will project to others, even if you're not showing it. Negativity and unhappiness give off bad vibes!!!!!!! Leave!!!! Stop hiding!!!!!

“already on your way” implies that this is the road to cheating and makes it seem that cheating is only the physical act. If one is hiding conversations, fantasizing, ‘sexting,’ etc. then they aren’t on the way to cheating, they are cheating.

And then there is the man who says we are just friends but is having a 5 year affair…. transparency is the only way to be. A lie of omission is still a lie!!

And thanks to smartphones, social media, dating/hookup apps/sites, and the cesspool that’s known as Craigslist ‘personals’, it’s that much easier for them to get their immoral fix. Break up with the person first… like really.

True. Chatting with girls are one example. Don’t say to me it’s only a friendly convo or you’re just friends with them. It’s okay to chat with them occasionally like when you wanted to greet them on their birthdays but on everyday basis well it’s a different thing. What is really funny is that when a woman found it out their men are in a denial mode. True enough. No one will tell the truth.

When you hide, knowingly omit [leave parts out], or otherwise are comitted to not telling your S/o/partner things.. It’s already there.
Basically, anything you know in your heart that is… “Deceptive”…
Why even bother? Just be honest and let the other know the truth… Let them be free, instead of stringing them along.
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Now privacy is a totally different subject.
Everyone wants, needs their personal space, and time.
You should be aware of your spouse’s need for privacy. You shouldn’t keep secrets, but you can keep your privacy.

Nah, you’re already there if you’re doing any of that shit.

Some people just dont have the conscience or maybe they never experience the pain they are causing. Karma is just around the corner people!

HIDING! Hiding anything is the point in this post. I believe that If you have to hide your phone, computer, phone call, or anything really…. You need to ask yourself why? Are you being dishonest ? Are you scared of someone finding out what your posting, doing, saying, or typing?! Are you ashamed of what you are doing? Then stop doing it, or for Pete’s sake… OWN IT!!! GEEZE!