Wes Watts but you took your time and waited for me. No man has ever done that and I’m bless that God gave you that patience to wait for me. I love you so much my king and I can’t wait till we start building are foundation abd dreams together as a family

My King, I was 63 when we got married on October 9. 2005. He had been married to a wise, beautiful lady who had passed after having given him 4 children. Then he got me?????? He is awesome

Absolutely… the mentality seems to be “I made it just fine before u and by golly, I’ll be fine when ur gone”…. and we r…. speaking for a friend of course!!??????

I don’t think I’m hard to love but I do find it hard to readapt to a life with another person there all the time. You build yourself up, find who you are, find your comfort zone and although you love the other person, these things are very hard to let go of. I am just super lucky that I have an amazing man that understands how I work and is secure about our relationship and doesn’t get offended ?

That’s your opinion, people being single doesnt mean they dont want special someone in their lives. They just want to make sure before letting anyone in their lives that he or she is the one …if you dont feel anything to the opposite sex even if they try to seduce you, why bother?

N the other fact is they didnt found anyone who are sincere n loyal n willin’ to give their 100% or love them back.. ?

Johan van den Borre after 6 years ???. There is someone who captured my heart in very unexpected time. But Im so blessed and thankful to god coz he gave me a man who has a positive outlook in life, loving, funny, handsome, and everything that has man’s characteristics.

Thanks alot Babylove for everything ??. I love you so much. Hugs and Kisses? .
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Princess ?

As opposed to those who are single but looking to share their life with someone.. Its only sensible,logical n rational to say.. that people who need ‘convincing’ .. definitely don’t deserve a companion.. They shud b left on their own.. self sufficient, independent n satisfied..!!

Not necessarily, love is the bond. Love is what hold everyone together. Just because we have been single a long time. Does not mean it takes something special. IT TAKES SOMETHING SPECIAL WORTH WAITING FOR!!! SICK OF MISTAKES. SICK OF SCAMMERS. SICK OF LIARS.

It might be true to some degree. I was single for a long time and it was because I felt I knew who I was and what kind of person I wanted to be with. It wasn’t that I was unlovable, I was just waiting to meet someone compatible with me.

I don’t believe that being single for a long time is harder to love.Maybe they just want to test you if where you can go to fight for them and what can you do for them to say yes…because they want to assure their self that they will not be going to failed again in case they will accept your love and they also want to assure that you are the right person for them…

True! And if you don’t have self confidence and guts, the more harder to convince this kind of singles. ?
But if you’re too aggressive and boastful, you’re into a much harder situation.
The key is to be balanced. ?
And this kind of singles, they’re into a more real and lifetime commitment, no more pretentious players.

I think there are a lot of single people who would like to meet the right one, but also don’t want to get hurt.

If you wind up w a single at 60 yrs old, be sure to be strong bcuz they will be all of these things and simply refuse to change, so move on to someone who is willing to change some of his/ her qualities. If you love that person, you will be willing to change. You can’t make him change, he or she has to b willing to compromise or they just choose to be alone more than to have a wonderful life with a partner.

Just not in a rush or needy so why settle? Life is great so keep enjoying it. If you aren’t happy single you won’t be happy in a relationship for long..

So true! That’s why I didn’t meet the love of my life until age 40. Finally found someone who feels grateful to have a woman who is with him not because I need him but because I want him. Wait until you find someone who understands that. It’s totally worth the wait!

That’s the thing though. Relationships should not result in someone else feeling smothered. They should be playful, fun & drama-free. Having a relationship should not result in someone’s independence being taken away either. It’s about giving and sharing your time and making memories with somebody special while maintaining your independence. at the same time. When someone uses the “I’ve been single too long” as an excuse to become a cold fish to their SO or not be a loving partner, I absolutely don’t buy it at all. My two cents.

Going on 5 years single after 2 failed marriages……tried dating sites and after talking to more men than I wanted to I decided that I am fine alone. It isn’t so bad……if I meet someone special great……if I don’t that is ok too…… but I am not settling for Mr. wrong ever again. You have to be happy……we only get one go around in this world so make the most of it. 🙂

Mistake you are making in your assumptions is that we “need” someone. If you “need” someone then you’re truly not ready for a healthy relationship.

and it fucking suck when a man ask for an opportunity to open your heart to him and say he is not the other guys and ends up being worst than the damn past one…

u_u No, im not feeling the burn of the betray anymore… ?? ?
but i hope a car run over his legs and destroy his bones, fall in a deppression and die❤ ?asshole…

I do not want to be single,but after searching for over five,I have almost given up. Trying to find my special one,has been like trying to win the Lottery.

I believe this. Be you male or female, If the person is not worth it, don’t go into it at all and stress yourself unnecessarily. And don’t go into it because you’re desperate, else you’ll regret it. Keep enjoying your singleness until you find someone that loves you genuinely. My take.

I’ve been single for a while and Idk if this is true. But I know what I want and know what I don’t. The one thing that gets me confused is that a guy would say he wants a strong woman who knows what she wants, but then when he gets her he complains she is way too much and too selfish. I’m better off myself, less drama, and less confusion. Happier life

Many Men are too focused on the media nowadays, or themselves to worry about a relationship. They care more about success and look at women as a disposable object that can be replaced. The good ones put Jesus Christ at the center of their lives. To live without God is dark. With all of the distractions and sin in life today, it’s no wonder why we live in a backwards society.