Never cheated. I definitely do not tolerate it and have too much integrity. For me sex with somebody you love and care for is the ultimate intimate Human Experience.

Not true! I was the cheater in my first marriage, I fell for some one who actually treated me nicesly, spoke softly and made me feel wanted. It was soon over becaused I realised it would be best to end my marriage due to abuse. I got a divorce and I would never do it again. Luckily I’ve found forgiveness and a husband whom adores me now

Communication is key to a healthy relationship. If you don’t like something about your partner or agree with something they’d do, then talk to them. No one can read another persons mind. Tell them and work together. Work for a common goal. Communication.

Really? I don’t believe in this. Ppl learn from their mistakes if they made one but if someone despite of knowing it’s a wrong thing to do and still does it then cheater is always a cheater or let’s say a player is always a player. Sometimes we don’t know how to read our feelings. Its possible to mistake sympathy with love and politeness with flirt. The best thing is to stop urself before things go out of hand and before u loose someone that u’ll regret for the rest of ur life. Let’s put ourselves in someone else’s shoes… Read more »

Yes they will always cheat and if you are the other person who are cheating with them and you really think they are only cheating with you because they are unhappy at home then more fool you. If they wanted you they wpuld just leave to be with you and if thet get kicked out and you are the only option but will be cheated on at some point in thw future too they cant help but have the thrill of the cheat and the excitment of not getting caught.

I don’t know, we’re suppose to forgive. Some people change. And just in case you’re in a relationship where your partner cheats then do it again, and again, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is like your partner.. Just sayin’..

MOST DEFINITELY!!! And people wonder why their relationships go south when they give cheaters a second, third and fourth chance. And the funny thing is, once you take back a cheater…they gotcha….because they kmow you’re not going anywhere.

If the woman that you cheat with is being treated better that she is in her current relationship than I fully believe this to be false. I do not condone cheating however. If you are that unhappy with who you’re with that just leaving them. Especially if there is someone else that you love.

A player doesn’t change , someone who has cheated can learn from his or her mistakes . Sometimes there are reasons for the incidents caused by the other half and how THEY treat their mate . Abusive spouses will drive people to do foolish or bad things .

A relationship has a record of cheat should end right there. Why cheat in the first place? When there’s love, there should respect and sacrifice to avoid all kind of temptation. I can’t continue with someone who cheat on me my mind won’t let me.

Humans are capable of change. If it’s important to them. If one feels the need to stray, lie, cheat-just say so. Man/woman up. Be honest . Have integrity. That way both can move on. When you forgive someone more than once, then cheating is a choice, not a mistake. Know your self worth. Move on.

It is not that simple. This statement assumes that humans are incapable of change and learning. Which is not true. If it were we would all still be in caves. But really, cheating cannot be attributed to just the one person. Nobody marries with the intention of cheating. Or repeats it with the same intentions.

Agreed. Cheating is anything your partner wouldn’t approve of you doing! If you have to lie to them by omission, then it’s cheating…

Totally disagree. People change and learn from their mistakes and just like any other mistake if they are sincerely sorry they deserve forgiveness.

Cheating can be in many forms and once the trust has been tampered with or broken it’s done. If they do it once, they will do it again. If your loved one does something with another whatever it may be and it upsets you, the lines been crossed. How would they feel if you done the same thing to them? You don’t want someone else if you truly love the person your with.

Yep….. ladies love yourself. If a man cheats on you, lies to you, lays hands on you even if it’s just once walk away from that no matter how much you love that person. Sooner or later he/she will do it again. Know your worth!

Depends…but agree it is linked to loving the person. I cheated, because I didn’t love the person anymore. But that does not mean I will do that again!! So simply – if you love, you don’t cheat.

Yes its true, believe that saying, i forgive him once to save our marriage but he did it again, and now I starting my new life without him and hoping times can heal the broken heart.

That’s true. I’ve said this before. Cheating is a choice. Not everything that happens is a mistake. If you think about it, when you make a mistake, you do so unknowingly. You realise it later that what you did was actually a mistake on your part. But when someone cheats, they do it knowingly, simultaneously trying to cover it up & not get caught. So if someone is cheating on you, they are very well aware of their actions. Just not aware of its consequences and effect on the other person. And nothing can change how a person is. So… Read more »

My lady got me in a time I was still kind of flirting around…By the time I realised what I had and Let go of that old life she found out about my foolishness…slowly but still she did forgive me…i allready had realised she deserves the best and after she gave me my one chance she also Let me see why it’s not worth it to flirt around…she made me, even after being Hurt, see how huge and lovable her heart and soul is…she made me see an amazing woman i was looking for all my life….after all this I… Read more »

Not true for everyone. I did once before and the guilt was so powerful it made me sick. Havent ever cheated since. That statement just comes from someone who has been cheated on more than once, and there must be a reason. lol

I cheated on my husband over 4 yrs ago and that was the worst mistake I’ve ever made and I refuse to ever do it again. So no this is not always true.

This happened to me recently, I loved her so much and still kinda do. I’ve never felt so broken everywhere all over. To me what hurts the most is that she never had the guts to tell me whilst I was overseas that she was starting to see someone else. I hate cheating if you’re gonna cheat just have the respect to end it with the person right then and there to save a hell of a lot of heartbreak. Cheating to me is doing anything that your partner wouldn’t approve of. It may not always be physical but if… Read more »

A cheater will cheat no matter how good you treat them. Cheating isn’t always about being unhappy, sometimes it’s about pleasure and greed.

I believe that if you really love someone, you won’t cheat. If you cheat on them, you really don’t love them. So you should move on the minute you think about it.